I'm at a cross roads. My fathers physically, mentally, and spiritual terror that was cast on our family is getting worse by the day. I can leave and I know I'll make it, but I'll feel guilty about my mother and siblings. There is NO changing him and he just gets worse by the day Do I wait it out, leave by myself, or devise a plan to relieve my mother and siblings of the pain thats been, is, and will continue to be inflicted if nothing drastic changes? Literally what do I do, my life is passing by. Its been like this for so long, its all ive known im sick and fucking tired of it. Pic unrelated
isolation is the oxygen mask. get other people around to comment when he does something shitty. your family is not going to listen to you but when it's someone else that's different. if nothing changes after that you need to give up and move on
>>33275811This literally happened when family was over and as they left the house, he was still screaming about her.
>>33275827then I'm sorry, there's nothing you can do.
don't be the mother unable to stop clinging to the zombie baby in the horror movie
>>33275759 (OP)I think you should leave now. Once things are settled you can get your family to join you. You'll be a in clearer head space to properly think things through, and your family will be at ease too because they'll know they can leave and join you since you actually have a place.
