>>33277296The problem is not imaginary. Pornography usage in early adulthood has reinforcing effects on sexual behavior. This in turn leads to hypersexuality where the mind is caught between being aroused and hence super distracted or postorgasmic tiredness and lethargy. If done multiple times a day it interferes with life and intrudes and activated upon women in real life of which entanglement is not desirable and one would have hiterto been able to resist effortlessly. The effects are disasterous, the outward consequences like prefluid stains on the pants or exerting mental effort to suppress erections in front of others wives and girlfriends simply cannot be anything but detrimental, a social and internal burden of the highest caliber.
If looked at objectively, recreational sexual behavior is a disease that impairs quality of life and will induce distress. A burden if acted upon has consequences. I have gained nothing from having sex with women or masturbating and regret it. I have invested a minimal amount of time to these activities compared to most people who additionally have Instagram and tinder and are drooling and whittling their limited hours away plotting and trying to get laid.
OP needs to stay active and busy and keep his mind away from sex. If he can't fall asleep at night, a prescription for a real hypnotic (z-drugs, triazolam, quazepam) is better than sleeplessness induced by protracted sexual urges.
>>33277302Copulating with someone would solve nothing for OP and be even more noticable than fapping and now introduces disease risk and reputational harm.
