What's the point of dating after 30? Obviously everyone involved is a leftover piece of shit.

>>33278913 (OP)
Then die alone. Nobody cares.

>>33278913 (OP)
Honestly yeah. This is evolution. Not just genetic but memetic.

>>33278913 (OP)
I'd like to think I'm not. I've just been uprooted by work several times and busy grinding. But I understand the feeling. It's incredibly hard to find a chick who doesn't have big ugly tats or smokes weed, isn't morbidly obese, doesn't have an obsession with travel, and isn't a jesus freak. I'm a fit, moderate, happy where I am kind of guy, and that's evidently maiden repellent.

>>33278913 (OP)
Either get used to being alone or kys.

>>33278913 (OP)
Because you are too. So date at your level!

>>33278913 (OP)
Not true, I think most are traumatised / damaged or just socially inept, however there will be some diamonds in the rough

Plus girls like older guys, so as a guy in your 30s you can girls 24/25+ which is fine

But time is if the essence... Dating apps are grim

>>33279102
>dating apps are grim
Because men out number women 10 to 1 and the women are 3/10 on average.

>>33279101
It gets to the point where both people are so shitty that a relationship would only be counterproductive.

>>33278940
>and isn't a jesus freak.
What century are you from? There is a major dearth of single Christian women, because women refuse to give up abortion and birth control.

>>33279528
I see them on dating apps all the time
>Must love Jesus
>Christ-centered relationship
>Follows Christ with whole heart
>Jesus is my #1
Granted, I live in near proximity to Minneapolis, so I get both ends of the pendulum AND a bunch of tourists going through MPLS airport.

>>33279637
I suspect a lot of them are the "reformed" whores kind, but they do exist.

>>33279639
ok having had bad pasts doesn't make them any less of Jesus freaks now, genius

>>33278913 (OP)
I dated an 18yo virgin at 32

>>33278913 (OP)
Average age for men to marry?
>30 years, 2 months
Average age for women to marry?
>28 years 7 months
so about 49% of married men and 42% of married women were married at age 31 and above.
These couples are LESS likely to divorce.
>>33279528
Moron - feminism has been in decline for 40 years and contemporary women are more pro-life than ever before.
You KHHV incels are fucking stupid

>>33280466
>>33280466
How did you do it?

>>33280998
by LARPing

>>33280998
I was studying abroad, someone open to date a foreigner might also be open to date outside her age range
I did like I was 28 to not scare her that much in the beginning but I told her my real age before we fucked for the first time.

>>33280447
I (>>33279639) was tacking on to what I (>>33279637) had said, since a good chunk of them do have the pics of themselves getting dunked in a pool or lake. I had also remembered the post warning guys about the emerging trend of women with bad pasts larping as tradwives at churches to snag safe bets.

>Obviously
You are obviously a teenager virgin who has never been on a date.

>>33280498
people aren't marrying immediately upon meeting. that average from people marrying at 30/28 had long term relationships in their mid 20s at latest.
my rule is 2 years dating + 1 as fiance (and this is fast paced for many people). so if im 31 and happen to find someone tomorrow, i'll be 34 when i marry.

>>33282206
You're just proving my point - even if you meet a woman when she is 33 she is atill going to be well within the average marriage window

>>33278913 (OP)
best sex I ever had was with a 36yo woman. that slut was evil in a lot of ways but holy shit did she like it rough.

I'm 45 and will date any woman that's fuckable from 20 to 50. and you really should too

Anyone who has ever actually been in a relationship (Not OP) realizes that few rarely make the distance.

An arbitrary age doesn't determine whether or not someone has value, or doesn't. If any of you had experienced the warmth of any women in your lives, you would know that.

Only women are leftovers. men can maintain their looks long into their 40s and of course their power and financial security are intensely attractive as they get older in spite of the wrinkles

>>33282288
>arbitrary age doesn't determine love
Found the paedo

>>33278913 (OP)
Just date younger. I'm 35 and my gf is 21. We're in relationship not just fwb.

>>33282265
A man of opportunity. This guy gets it.

>>33278913 (OP)
>What's the point of dating after 30? Obviously everyone involved is a leftover piece of shit.
Date under 30s if you're over 30.
I did an married her.

>>33278940
Same. I'm 31 and I think that I would be alright. Like not a great bf, because I'm not going to financially spoil her, but I'm also not going to keep her addicted to me with drugs like some guys do.

I spent my 20s thinking the single life was the life for me. Like I was actually happy just hanging out with friends and gaming and using the rest of my time working. I didn't go to any social spots, I just kept it online and with the 3 friends I kept from high school.

In my 30s, it probably is going to be that way unless something crazy happens, but I have grown a lot as a person. I used to be a more oblivious to the world around me to the point that these days it feels like I was walking with blinders on back then. I wasn't interested in social discussion at all. 20s me would not have visited /adv/ ever.

I also don't like tats, I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, I am tall and skinny but also out of shape stamina-wise. I come from a Christian mother, and as such I can't stand Jesus-freaks. I need someone who has logic and can take care of herself. It amazes me how many relationships are parasitic one way or another. I think it's best to keep money out of a relationship. I'll handle my stuff and she handles her stuff. I'll help you out of a spot if you pay me back, but hardly anyone seems to do so in a timely fashion. In a shared household, I don't believe that 1 person does certain chores for the house. Just clean up your own messes and both people will keep the house clean. Why is this so hard for people?

I struggle with going out of my way to help with things and with accepting help for things, but I've been getting better at that. If you ask me for help with something I know how to do, I'll show you how to do it. Likewise, if I don't know something I will usually look it up myself but if you know how, I'll listen.

I just want a woman who keeps her act together like I do, doesn't shit talk, likes to share interests, cuddling and sex without future kids.

>>33282265
seriously do not understand this generation at all

do they see stiflers mom and just go "i don't get it" and not laugh

>>33278940
Same boat. Pushing 40 and never had a serious relationship because I didn’t go to clubs or whatever I guess. Was always elite level fitness, good looks, even used to make great money (poor now). I thought I’d meet someone healthy at the gym, but it never played out. I prefer staying single to being with a tatted up landwhale, and frankly I don’t even want a girl who’s been passed around. I think women like I imagine simply haven’t existed since I became an adult.

>>33278925
I care, I hate to see a young man losing out on life for whatever reason. We don't deserve this.

>>33282265
I'm not into wrinkles tho
I stopped fucking a gym bunny that is only 23 because she has deep folds on the sides of her mouth nose that weren't there when I started seeing her at 17 (legal in my country)

>>33283851
If you don’t know how to care for a woman who puts in work you deserve to end up alone.

>>33278913 (OP)
33 here.

I've been in a steady casual relationship for the last year. I spent most of my 20s just fucking and not understanding courtship. I feel like I've become better and sex isn't the only thing I'm interested in anymore.

By the end of the year I'd like to have the foundations of a relationship that might lead to a family. I'm just bad at meeting people.

>>33278913 (OP)
you date younger women. there is zero reason to date women over 30. I'm 33 and my gf is 20. You could easily get a 22-25 year old gf

>>33285530
No you don't, in the west normal girls don't date someone that older. She must be with you for money or daddy issues.

>>33282265
this, anyone else not seeing this hard truth is just an incel coping.