Me and my wife were both virgins and agreed to wait until marriage. We got married last week, and on our first night together, she didn’t bleed and said it didn’t really hurt. She swears she’s never had sex before, but I’m finding it hard to believe.

>>33279312 (OP)
Some women may be born without a hymen but she could also have broken it by inserting a dildo or something

>>33279312 (OP)
some hymens break with sport and activitys like biking, horseback riding, gymnastics, etc. If a woman is very aroused on her first time to the point she is horny 100% and very well lubricated she will not be in pain. Tearing doesn’t always mean bleed. Maybe she masturbated in the past and was mentally prepared. Be fucking grateful you have a wife and both lost each others virginities. You are a shitty spouse for suspecting something like this Did you really want her first time miserable in pain and bleeding? what the fuck

>>33279361
What? No, of course not. I didn’t want her first time to be painful or miserable. I just wondered why she would lie about it. We’ve been together for 4 years, I would’ve been fine if she wasn’t a virgin. I just always thought the hymen doesn’t break that easily, so I figured maybe she had a boyfriend before me or something. It’s not a big deal, I love her and this doesn’t change how I feel. I just thought maybe she didn’t tell me the truth because she was afraid I’d judge her.

>>33279312 (OP)
It is very rare for a woman still to have an intact hymen by the time she has sex for the first time. If a woman bleeds the first time she has sex it's because she's nervous and her partner is too rough and goes in too early.

>>33279387
>I just always thought the hymen doesn’t break that easily
Generally they don't so much as break as gradually wear away. They're usually long gone by the time you have sex. Although some women still have an intact hymen even after sex and don't lose it till they give birth.

>>33279312 (OP)
You know that you can access Google and, indeed, the entirety of the internet's knowledge with whichever device it is that you posted here with?

>>33279461
>>33279468
Thanks, I honestly didn’t know that. I had a really bad perception of reality and thought it was like in movies and books. I realize now I should’ve just googled it. Thank God I didn’t accuse my wife of not being a virgin.

A hymen can break for tons of reasons. heavy menstrual, sports, etc

>>33279312 (OP)
Yes to both questions, and it is far more frequent than you think. That's why absence of a hymen is no evidence of anything.

>>33279809
Except for a lack of virginity.

>>33279312 (OP)
>Can a woman be born without a hymen or can it break on its own?
Yes, actually, if her fathers penis is long enough and if he has sex with the pregnant mother it could potentially work its way into the unborn daughters vagina, thus breaking her hymen in the womb.

>>33280257
lol

>i'm finding it hard to believe
>mfw retards don't know basic shit about female genitalia

>>33279312 (OP)
Maybe it's rumor but I was told sporty girls often break it when they are young through bodily impact. Hell if I know how that thing works on any level beyond what I hear.

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>>33281268
Honestly, I had zero idea of any of that i just thought bleeding was normal on the first night.

>>33281341
yeah a lot of guys think the same, i blame porno for that mindset

>>33281699
Yeah, it’s not even from porn, more from movies and books I read, where they always "knew" it was their partner’s first time because of the blood. So I kind of assumed she had a boyfriend before me. But I never said anything to her about it. We've had sex since then, and it feels great for both of us, so I don’t see it as a big deal. I was just genuinely curious.

>>33279361
> biking, horseback riding, gymnastics
This is why biking, horseback riding, and gymnastics will be banned for roasties in the coming caliphate.

>>33279312 (OP)
How are men this clueless?

>>33281751
Its straight up biology bro
And history

Its not a "movie" thing