But I could never marry her. Should I turn her down?
Cashier at my Kroger asked me out. Never had a girl ask me out before, so that was nice. However, she's a hijab wearing black girl. She was born here in the Midwest, so she speaks and acts like an American, but she's somewhat devout to her faith. I'm a white member of the SBC, and I've slowly gotten back into the church as I've gotten older. She's nice and has an interesting life story. I find her face pretty. The racial thing I could probably get past, but a Muslim? Idk how'd that fly with my family or myself. We have some similar interests and we're gonna go see the F1 movie this Sunday.
I'm not trying to get sum with a Mohammedan (probably a bad idea), and I don't want to lead her along. Should I just cut it off, tell her I only want to be friends immediately, or something else?

>>33281020 (OP)
It is worth going out on a date and, if it goes well, having a discussion about the possibility of a future together. Maybe you can raise the kids Christian? Maybe she doesn't care about whether her family approves? You don't know if you don't ask

>>33281020 (OP)
you don't want a smelly hijabi for a wife anon.
she's probably even had her clit removed.

>>33281020 (OP)
a friendly date is not something you should avoid.

>>33281020 (OP)
What's wrong with having a friend-who-is-a-girl?

>>33281020 (OP)
Why break a woman's heart if you have no intention of moving forward with the relationship? To have sex? Get an escort To boost your ego? If you have any morality, the remorse will hit harder than whatever you're feeling right now.

>>33281020 (OP)
It’s a trap, dumbass. The next thing you know, you’re on a list.

>>33281447
Just ask her that.
>>33281020 (OP)
Yeah that's a difficult thing, I found some nice ones too, and usually it's a problem for them too. If she has a strict family even more. But me if I find someone of mohammedan origin, wearing something on the head like our grandmother's mothers faithful, with principles (unlike cuckstians) but open to criticize islam and admit the truth of hinduism, perennialism and some christianism, I'm really open to her appreciating the truth vehiculed by islam from before and in sufism (if she still criticize islam as a whole, as a separate religion and an exclusivist one, like all abrahamism). Islam isn't legitimate, but her religiosity and the religiosity of some sufi can really be and I have no problem with that. As long as she doesn't stay muslim strictly but become more open with me.

>>33281020 (OP)
"Honey, I wonder if you might be able to help me with something called a 'green card'?"

>>33281020 (OP)
Muslim men are allowed to marry Christian and Jewish women. I'm not sure if it works with the gender roles reversed; worth checking.

>>33281020 (OP)
just force her to convert to Christianity, bro

>>33282476
>I'm not sure if it works with the gender roles reversed
it doesn't
hijabis often are huge hypocrites though
either that or they don't know their own religion

>>33281020 (OP)
report xer to ICE

>>33281474
That's what I'm thinking.
>>33281668
I have friends who are girls, but she asked me out on a date.
>>33281691
I know that. I'm not trying to just bang her. I'd feel like a scumbag.
>>33282086
>>33283049
She's a citizen, she was born here. Her parents are naturalized. It's nothing like that.

>>33282481
Maybe. I don't know how devout she actually is. I know hijabs became a statement for some of these women that's not actually connected to faith. She wears long sleeves too all the time, even though it's been 100°F, but she also wears some hot skinny jeans that have me checking her out. Probably means she's not super into it. It would certainly make things better. My mom wouldn't care then. My dad probably wouldn't care either way, though. I could try to invite her to my church. We've gotten pretty big since the local Baptist and Methodist Churches started sucking off the queers causing the actual Christians to flood into our congregation. We're pretty big tent now. Of course, I don't know her personal opinions. She could be more inline with Muslims, or she could be like a NYC mayor Muslim.

>>33281235
I would want to be pretty upfront about that. I'm 26, but she's only 20. I'm thinking about stuff like that, but she might not be. Either way, If we hit it off, I'm going to bring it up. I want to have my first not too far after 30, and that's closing in. I don't want to be almost in my 60s when my kids are graduating from highschool. My oldest brother's youngest kid will be 18 when he's 56 for example. That just isn't what I want.
As for the matter of how they're raised, yeah, I wouldn't do any mixed faith stuff. Mixed culture (to a certain degree), that's fine, but I want them going to church on Sunday, not Mosque on Friday too.

>>33285426
IDK if anyone asked but do you find her cute at all?

>>33281020 (OP)
Go ahead, who cares, you can do whatever you want and decide later.

Bear in mind her clit may be removed, I went on a few dates with an African muslim chick only to find out her clit was mutilated and she had a frankenpussy. It was kinda horrifying. So just watch out for that.

>>33281020 (OP)
She probably wants you to nut in her mouth with her hijab on. I wish I was joking. I boinked my hijabi neighbour most of covid lockdown.

Hijabi women are ideal FWBs ironically. No they are not for relationships. Just be extremely low key.

Honestly islam spread rapidly in regions where women tend to be naturally even more slutty. Arab womens hips and boobs? Yeah no wonder they needed to cover up.

Stop making it more complicated than it is.

Just hit it it would be a /BWC/ victory

>>33285486
Yeah, I said so in my post. I think she has a very pretty face. Her choice of apparel is also very form fitting and she's very fit looking, which is appealing to me as well.
>>33285723
She was born here. I do know even though it's illegal, there are some backroom mutilations going on here anyway. I don't think that's the case though. Not really sure how to probe on that issue.

>>33281020 (OP)
Its just a date relax. See if there's a connection and if there isn't there isn't. worry about all that shit later when you guys hit it off