Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:12:17 AM No.33281705
Can women who are "damaged goods" be saved?
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Thread 33281705 - /adv/ [Archived: 788 hours ago]
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:16:04 AM No.33281714
>>33281705 (OP)
no. try and do it :3 and see for yourself!!
no. try and do it :3 and see for yourself!!
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:19:14 AM No.33281727
>>33281705 (OP)
They usually come with mental illnesses which are almost impossible to cure, so no.
They usually come with mental illnesses which are almost impossible to cure, so no.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:24:46 AM No.33281740
>>33281705 (OP)
Unfortunately, no. Like a dog that has tasted human blood, it becomes feral. You have to sacrifice it. Sad but true!
Unfortunately, no. Like a dog that has tasted human blood, it becomes feral. You have to sacrifice it. Sad but true!
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:34:28 AM No.33281762
in spite of my best efforts, no
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:25:05 AM No.33281854
>>33281705 (OP)
>Can women who are "damaged goods" be saved?
Absolutely not. And speaking from experience, never take a woman with a tramp stamp seriously.
>Can women who are "damaged goods" be saved?
Absolutely not. And speaking from experience, never take a woman with a tramp stamp seriously.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 11:51:30 AM No.33281905
>>33281705 (OP)
Hell no, especially not rape victims.
Humans aren't plastic you can just glue together and everything will be fine.
Hell no, especially not rape victims.
Humans aren't plastic you can just glue together and everything will be fine.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 12:15:38 PM No.33281954
>>33281705 (OP)
Yes, i personally don't mind second-hand goods as i get my stuff from flea markets and pawn shops.
Yes, i personally don't mind second-hand goods as i get my stuff from flea markets and pawn shops.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 1:16:39 PM No.33282094
>>33281705 (OP)
No
They aren't damaged, they've always been like that, they just have an acceptable excuse now.
No
They aren't damaged, they've always been like that, they just have an acceptable excuse now.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 1:19:41 PM No.33282102
>>33281705 (OP)
Anyone can be saved through Jesus Christ
Anyone can be saved through Jesus Christ
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 1:35:25 PM No.33282131
>>33282102
>Galatians 6:7-8 - Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.
While it is true that God's mercy is infinite, and that everyone needs to repent, we cannot expect salvation, we cannot earn salvation, just hope through faith.
With that said, no one should be surprised if they're treated like trash becuase they acted like it.
>Galatians 6:7-8 - Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.
While it is true that God's mercy is infinite, and that everyone needs to repent, we cannot expect salvation, we cannot earn salvation, just hope through faith.
With that said, no one should be surprised if they're treated like trash becuase they acted like it.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 1:35:51 PM No.33282134
>>33282102
The Catholic Church is the only way to reach Christ btw
The Catholic Church is the only way to reach Christ btw
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 1:39:38 PM No.33282141
>>33282134
>Extra ecclesiastes nulla salus
We simply do not know, but the Catholic Church holds the most consistent view of what the christian truth is, with doctrines and practices stemming from the beginning of the Christianity, and being founded by Peter and Paul themselves. But it's not the ultimate end goal, the cathechism also elaborates on heterodoxial practices and peole who haven't encountered the institution of the church.
>Extra ecclesiastes nulla salus
We simply do not know, but the Catholic Church holds the most consistent view of what the christian truth is, with doctrines and practices stemming from the beginning of the Christianity, and being founded by Peter and Paul themselves. But it's not the ultimate end goal, the cathechism also elaborates on heterodoxial practices and peole who haven't encountered the institution of the church.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 3:13:51 PM No.33282363
>>33281705 (OP)
I've always seen it as a red flag when a woman calls herself damaged goods. Maybe some of them can he saved, but is it really worth the effort?
I've always seen it as a red flag when a woman calls herself damaged goods. Maybe some of them can he saved, but is it really worth the effort?
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 4:58:21 PM No.33282769
Can drug addicts be saved? Can alcoholics be saved?
Damaged women, or abused women, tend to get caught in cycles of abuse repeatedly, because that shit damages your nervous system and your instincts.
Self-fulfilling prophecy. And no one wants a savior, OP. It’s belittling. The type of woman who wants “saved” or to be “taken care of” will also be the perpetual victim, because she hasn’t done the internal work to change.
Damaged women, or abused women, tend to get caught in cycles of abuse repeatedly, because that shit damages your nervous system and your instincts.
Self-fulfilling prophecy. And no one wants a savior, OP. It’s belittling. The type of woman who wants “saved” or to be “taken care of” will also be the perpetual victim, because she hasn’t done the internal work to change.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 6:27:58 PM No.33283097
>>33281705 (OP)
>Can women who are "damaged goods" be saved?
Yes. But that's God's work. No one else can save them but God. And they have to want God in return. Their old way of life must perish, and even their old sense of self must die. Just as Christ died and resurrected, the sinner must undergo a similar death of his or her own ego. Then they resurrect spiritually, and wear the new-self that was created to resemble God's own image. That new-self is a living breathing person, His name is Christ.
While none of us can be Christ, we can adopt His personage as best we can by emulating Him. That is the new-self, the new identity crafted for us by God that we are called to equip. Then the sinner can be understood again as something new. Then they are saved. Not by their own merit, but always by God's grace alone.
>Can women who are "damaged goods" be saved?
Yes. But that's God's work. No one else can save them but God. And they have to want God in return. Their old way of life must perish, and even their old sense of self must die. Just as Christ died and resurrected, the sinner must undergo a similar death of his or her own ego. Then they resurrect spiritually, and wear the new-self that was created to resemble God's own image. That new-self is a living breathing person, His name is Christ.
While none of us can be Christ, we can adopt His personage as best we can by emulating Him. That is the new-self, the new identity crafted for us by God that we are called to equip. Then the sinner can be understood again as something new. Then they are saved. Not by their own merit, but always by God's grace alone.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 7:11:47 PM No.33283247
>>33281705 (OP)
Will women love a man who fucked a tranny?
Will women love a man who fucked a tranny?
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 7:46:30 PM No.33283383
>>33282141
They seceded from the whole church with the inclusion of pagan rituals and the false institution of the papacy. Orthodoxy is the true apostolic successor to the ministry of the patriarchs.
They seceded from the whole church with the inclusion of pagan rituals and the false institution of the papacy. Orthodoxy is the true apostolic successor to the ministry of the patriarchs.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:34:39 PM No.33283589
Nope. Not everything that's broken can be fixed. If your finger gets cut off it doesn't magically grow back because you want it to or because you feel sorry/bad.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:45:53 PM No.33283618
>>33281705 (OP)
I can save them.
I can save them.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:52:40 PM No.33283630
>>33281705 (OP)
You're asking a question too broad and philosophical to really have any decent answer, not mentioning the fact that subjective determinations like "damaged" or "saved" are all going to differ depending on who you're talking to. The fundamental nail you're picking at here is the question whether or not a person can change - whether they're nature and temperament are hard coded or if the human mind can, in some sense, rewire itself. Deeper than that is the question of what exactly is a person's "nature"? Where is the line drawn between the conscious and subconscious which separates active decision making from biological imperatives? The easy answer is nobody knows and, likely, we'll never know. People, on the aggregate, are typically very predictable but human nature offers us a quite colorful and varied amount of outliers. So, to put it shortly, can people change? I don't know. I don't even know what "change" really means. Does learning new information and gathering life experiences "change" me or am I simply the identical being with updated software? Would I be the same person had I not gone through the things in my life that I had? Complicated questions, OP. A lifetime worth to consider.
You're asking a question too broad and philosophical to really have any decent answer, not mentioning the fact that subjective determinations like "damaged" or "saved" are all going to differ depending on who you're talking to. The fundamental nail you're picking at here is the question whether or not a person can change - whether they're nature and temperament are hard coded or if the human mind can, in some sense, rewire itself. Deeper than that is the question of what exactly is a person's "nature"? Where is the line drawn between the conscious and subconscious which separates active decision making from biological imperatives? The easy answer is nobody knows and, likely, we'll never know. People, on the aggregate, are typically very predictable but human nature offers us a quite colorful and varied amount of outliers. So, to put it shortly, can people change? I don't know. I don't even know what "change" really means. Does learning new information and gathering life experiences "change" me or am I simply the identical being with updated software? Would I be the same person had I not gone through the things in my life that I had? Complicated questions, OP. A lifetime worth to consider.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 1:44:22 AM No.33284510
>>33281705 (OP)
probably but you will get ruined in the process.
Dated an escort, worst financial decision ever but hey she's now out of the gig, is surrounded by good friends and work colleagues and she no longer turns to riding cock when the money is running out.
In the process of "saving her" I got into debt and no longer talk to friends and family. We still hangout from time to time and fuck but it would suck bad for me if she finds another. Thinking how about how another man can enjoy my hard work pisses me off.
Thinking about how she might not be alive today (her best friend got killed by a hit man, probably sent by a former client) if I didn't do it kinda makes me not regret it.
My advice is keep your head low and look after yourself instead. The stress might not be worth it. Get a normal girl.
probably but you will get ruined in the process.
Dated an escort, worst financial decision ever but hey she's now out of the gig, is surrounded by good friends and work colleagues and she no longer turns to riding cock when the money is running out.
In the process of "saving her" I got into debt and no longer talk to friends and family. We still hangout from time to time and fuck but it would suck bad for me if she finds another. Thinking how about how another man can enjoy my hard work pisses me off.
Thinking about how she might not be alive today (her best friend got killed by a hit man, probably sent by a former client) if I didn't do it kinda makes me not regret it.
My advice is keep your head low and look after yourself instead. The stress might not be worth it. Get a normal girl.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 1:48:11 AM No.33284520
>>33281705 (OP)
Are we talking about mentall ilness or women who have been abused?
Are we talking about mentall ilness or women who have been abused?
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 1:55:02 AM No.33284540
>>33284525
Well i dont really know, i guess im just asking if an autistic girl with depression is deemed. "Unfixable" and not going to be able to date because of that. But i dont have any experience in dating, so i wouldnt know how "broken" women act and if they are toxic
Well i dont really know, i guess im just asking if an autistic girl with depression is deemed. "Unfixable" and not going to be able to date because of that. But i dont have any experience in dating, so i wouldnt know how "broken" women act and if they are toxic
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 2:07:23 AM No.33284572
>>33281705 (OP)
Every single girl I've been with and seemingly like 90% of girls I'm just attracted to in general have been "damaged goods" in one way or another, notably that almost all of them were/are/will probably once again be cutters.
Even when I see someone who looks normal enough and acts normal enough, moreso than me, and then one day the hoodie or long sleeve shirt comes off and it's like "ah so that's why you wear long sleeves years round"
what does that say about me?
Every single girl I've been with and seemingly like 90% of girls I'm just attracted to in general have been "damaged goods" in one way or another, notably that almost all of them were/are/will probably once again be cutters.
Even when I see someone who looks normal enough and acts normal enough, moreso than me, and then one day the hoodie or long sleeve shirt comes off and it's like "ah so that's why you wear long sleeves years round"
what does that say about me?
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:54:47 AM No.33284833
>>33281705 (OP)
Yes if they choose to change (rare)
No if they make excuses for being themselves (common)
Yes if they choose to change (rare)
No if they make excuses for being themselves (common)
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:58:48 PM No.33287062
>>33281705 (OP)
>women who are "damaged goods"
Depends who's defining them.
If the self define you are in for a wild ride of everything thats a dumb decision now has an excuse and she WILL use it endlessly, addictively.
If its something you define, its hard to say as you might be incorrect to begin with, and people can surprise you sometimes.
An example of situation 1 is she says she has trauma in her past (wtf that means) so she uses it as an excuse to not get treatment for alcoholism, thats going to be a wild ride you don't want to take.
An example of situation 2 is she has tattoos so she's for the streets, well some folks get better after doing stupid stuff (certainly not all LOL) you might end up surprised (probably won't, but might)
>women who are "damaged goods"
Depends who's defining them.
If the self define you are in for a wild ride of everything thats a dumb decision now has an excuse and she WILL use it endlessly, addictively.
If its something you define, its hard to say as you might be incorrect to begin with, and people can surprise you sometimes.
An example of situation 1 is she says she has trauma in her past (wtf that means) so she uses it as an excuse to not get treatment for alcoholism, thats going to be a wild ride you don't want to take.
An example of situation 2 is she has tattoos so she's for the streets, well some folks get better after doing stupid stuff (certainly not all LOL) you might end up surprised (probably won't, but might)