>>33283284>How do i know what's best for me?By knowing what it is you want out of life. And it has to be long-term visions lf what you want. Think where you wanna be in the next 5 years. Or 10. Do you have a vision of what you’re gonna be doing when you’re old as fuck?
Once you know and choose that long-term plan, you can then know what is or isnt in your best interests.
If your plan included having a nice wife and family, fucking whores goes against that plan. You can safely say it's not best for (you). You elect to avoid fucking whores. Because it goes against your own interests.
You don't need empathy or even need to have a bleeding heart to acknowledge this. Even psychopaths can unserstand this much provided they take 5 minutes and a few drops of IQ to figure it out.
>maybe I’d feel like I fumbled someone who truly loved me.You seem to only understand your wrong doing unless there is punishment or consequence. Im assuming her being hurt wasnt a consequence for you. You need to feel hurt before it sinks in, right?
Fair enough. So start focusing on your dilemma. Your impulses have you by the balls. Try and fight against them, see what happens. Notice the struggle inside and notice how your power of will is fucking shot. Thats a consequence for you. What are you going to do about it?
