My bf sucks at sex - /adv/ (#33283444) [Archived: 1294 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:01:39 PM No.33283444
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I don't know what to do anymore. He's older than me so I thought he would be experienced but he can't me cum at all and his dick goes limp often. I love him but I don't know what I should do.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:04:09 PM No.33283460
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>>33283444 (OP)
I won't read larp threads posted by mentally ill, perpetually-online, subhuman morons. Go outside.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:08:57 PM No.33283478
>>33283444 (OP)
Take a shower, trim trim that bush a bit, and tell him to please lick you.
And for limp dick, half of a 5mg Cialis is enough, believe me.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:09:58 PM No.33283483
>>33283460
I wish I was lying lol
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:11:28 PM No.33283488
Sounds like he has confidence/anxiety issues.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:21:46 PM No.33283528
>>33283478
I'm shaved

>>33283488
I assure him always
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:22:41 PM No.33283536
>>33283488
Aaand he has serious fear of making you pregnant.
I got a vasectomy some years ago. Since that I‘m waaaaay more relaxed, get a hard one and fill my lady with cum twice a week.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:29:43 PM No.33283571
>>33283528
Good, so, does he lick you at all?
Are you doing some „slutty“ stuff, dirty talk etc?
Also could be a organical/health issue. Does he have nightly erections when speeping/morning wood? If yes = all fine. If no = send him to the urogolist asap
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:32:23 PM No.33283579
>>33283444 (OP)
Have you tried not being fat so he can get hard?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:40:10 PM No.33283605
>>33283444 (OP)
Take some responsibility for your and his pleasure.
Also it's all in your head, you can't enjoy any of it if you are convinced that you won't.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:42:55 PM No.33283610
>>33283444 (OP)
Probably smelt that ass and went link. When was the last time tou washed your ass?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:45:20 PM No.33283615
Either porn / novelty addicted, or he isn't turned on by you
I had both with my exes
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:52:48 PM No.33283631
>>33283536
Yeah, he talked about it with me some days ago but I don't think his fear would be this bad..

>>33283579
I'm not fat

>>33283610
I'm not stinky and he always says that my smell is nice
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 8:53:54 PM No.33283636
>>33283605
wtf so it's my fault? Ugh some anons on 4chan are so weird
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:01:31 PM No.33283648
>>33283444 (OP)
shit
how much people in the world ever have sex? 40%? 60%? Somebody have stats?
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:03:26 PM No.33283654
>>33283636
>>33283631
Listen, it‘s NOT YOUR „FAULT“/problem/whatever. Don't let any idiots tell you that. It‘s your bfs issue.
If I would be you, I‘d speak with him, in the most open, friendly way, try to find out what‘s going on in his head. We men have serious issues in talking about feelings or (hidden) fears. Tell him right away that you want to help him, but expect his participation. If he doesn‘t bite, his problem.

I wish you good luck. Really.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:05:35 PM No.33283663
>>33283528
He still doesn't feel relaxed around you.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:07:14 PM No.33283669
>>33283444 (OP)
Cialis
You can thanks me later.
Anyways, what he does at sex that can't make you finish?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:08:58 PM No.33283676
>>33283654
thank you. I really love him and I always do my best to pleasure him so I don't want to think he doesnt feel the same. And I don't want to let him go either. I will talk to him tonight.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:12:51 PM No.33283688
>>33283669
>what he does at sex that can't make you finish?
he always tells me the position hes going down on me is giving him pain, we tried a lot of different positions already. So he spends 10 min max down there and then tells me he's in pain. When we are having sex he cums too fast or his dick goes limp.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:16:11 PM No.33283702
>>33283688
Does he has back problems?
5mg to 20mg and he will be hard 5 times if needed.
There are also tons of supplements to improve libido
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:21:36 PM No.33283716
>>33283444 (OP)
Is it tiny?
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:31:04 PM No.33283744
>>33283702
>Does he has back problems?
yea, he complains about back pain a lot thinking about it....
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:31:59 PM No.33283747
>>33283744
Is he in shape? Does he exercise?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:34:12 PM No.33283755
>>33283747
>Is he in shape? Does he exercise?
no and no.... should i take him to exercise with me?
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:37:11 PM No.33283760
>>33283755
>should i take him to exercise with me?
If he doesn't do that on his own it's already over for the man lol. Maybe just suggest him to hit the gym

I will search quick the "porn actor stack" and I will come back. Just give me a sec
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:39:50 PM No.33283766
1. It's way harder to get a woman to cum than it is a man. It's not impossible, it's just harder. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar.
2. Make a woman act out the dominant, thrusting position a man takes in sex and see how long she lasts. Time her, make her put on a sincere performance; there's a low chance she'll last long.
3. If he's going limp he might be TOO old. Get him to take viagra or something similar. Also tell him to get fit. If those fail then leave him for someone younger.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:42:00 PM No.33283772
>>33283766
>2. Make a woman act out the dominant, thrusting position a man takes in sex and see how long she lasts. Time her, make her put on a sincere performance; there's a low chance she'll last long.
are you homosexual
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:43:41 PM No.33283777
>>33283772
She's not supposed to do it on you, numbnuts.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:44:02 PM No.33283779
>>33283755
>>33283760
>Cialis(5mg to 20mg)
>Ioimbine
>Arginine
>TRT it low test
>Long jack
>Maca peruan
>Giseng
>Marapuama
>Zinc
>Selenium
>Daily cardio
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:47:02 PM No.33283781
>>33283766
Im not saying he must make me cum with his cock at all he can use his finger or mouth. im bi and women could make me cum using their mouth/hand. are you saying dykes are better than men then?

>>33283779
thanks
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:48:52 PM No.33283785
>>33283781
The most important is the Cialis, TRT and exercise desu
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:51:06 PM No.33283787
>>33283766
>It's way harder to get a woman to cum than it is a man. It's not impossible, it's just harder. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar.
My Ex Girlfriend cum way faster than I could. I remember the first few times I couldn't cum at all my dick was hard as rock but was stuck. It was embarrassing and eventually I lost all feeling and was tired.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 9:54:12 PM No.33283794
>>33283676
No, sleep one night, don’t rush regarding such topics. Better talk in the day. Friday night = brain still full of work bullshit.

>>33283755
haha ooookay. Listen, my libido always wents vertical when I keep doing sports consequently. Bit when your lazy turtle doesn‘t do, his fault. Also some back etc problems would be gone. Bodyweight training and stretching /yoga does wonders.
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:30:12 PM No.33283911
People in this thread are way too optimistic about Cialis. I tried some of that a while ago (on prescription from a pharmacist, not bought online) and got absolutely no benefit from it at all, just side effects. Viagra, on the other hand, does help me a bit.

>>33283444 (OP)
OP, is there a reason why you don't just break up with him, and find someone else? Someone who is young and terrible at sex might conceivably improve if given the right advice; but someone who is old and terrible at sex is definitely never going to get any better. If he had the ability or desire to improve, it would have happened already.
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Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:50:08 PM No.33283982
>>33283911
He's 29, he's not that old
Anonymous
6/27/2025, 10:57:52 PM No.33284013
>>33283444 (OP)
Maybe he's just not attracted to you
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:38:38 AM No.33284300
>>33284013
nah. he would do everything 4 me. i doubt it.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 2:09:15 AM No.33284578
>>33283444 (OP)
Have you both considered break up?
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 12:06:34 PM No.33286193
>>33283444 (OP)
What are the numerical value that appear when you stand on the scale?
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:14:57 PM No.33287607
>>33283636
Not unexpected that a fem anon is unable to understand responsibility.
Then gives an emotive appeal to normality.
This is why they lobotomized women.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:04:38 PM No.33287869
>>33284300
Maybe he has clinical depression. Get him to see a psychiatrist. Cuddle with him.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:36:57 AM No.33288440
ywnbaw
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:39:42 AM No.33288446
>>33283444 (OP)
Get him some blue chew and start talking to him about what he could do better. Most guys want to learn to be better at sex, and if you can help him with that, I think you would make both of you really happy. Honestly, just tell him straight up that you want more out of him. That means more sex for him, which means more practice, which means he gets better. You're not going to hurt his feelings if you go about it this way.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 3:02:33 AM No.33288874
>>33287869
I have clinical depression and suicidal tendencies diagnosed by both psychiatrists and therapist and I masturbate 3 to 4 times a day + I fuck hookers. It's probably just a matter of blood circulation fixable by Cialis or viagra
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 3:48:14 AM No.33288960
>>33283444 (OP)
lose some weight you fat hog
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 4:11:48 AM No.33288993
>>33283444 (OP)
Drugs