We've been together since highschool, im 22 and he is 21
We always had a low sex drive, and ive always been sort of a horny freak
But we always managed, even if he didnt feel like fucking me, we would make out, maybe hed finger me, let me blow him or jerk him off
But recently it all just stopped
Nothing at all
He still hugs me and kisses me and we cuddle but thats it
We talked about it and he said he just hasent been interested in sex recently and really doesnt want any sort of stimulation on his part
He even offered to finger me every once in a while if its a problem for me and
Thats very considerate of him and i appreciate it but at this point i just feel like a creep forcing him to touch me

Dont even suggest anything like cheating because thats not him at all
He doesnt even like people at all to begin with
We ve been together for almost 6 years now, im his first girlfriend and hes my first boyfriend
Im not breaking up with him over sex of all things, our relationship is much more than just that
But got
I do feel upset about it and miss having a good time with him in bed :(

Sexual compatibility is really important in a relationship.

>>33283680
Oh, get his t levels checked. After I started taking those shots, I became a sex demon

>>33283675 (OP)
Get his testosterone levels checked.

>>33283689
>>33283721
Oh
He did say something about that a few weeks back
Said something about feeling weird and wanted to get it checked out
Ill nudge him towards it

>>33283728
what if hes stressed by something, work could be messing with him, there could be something else. It could be low t, cus if his hormones are out of sync then he wont want to fuck anything

>>33283728
You should. It's really easy and it can be life changing. He might have more energy and a fuller beard etc. Also more horny.

>>33283748
He started college this year and has been working very hard on catching up w math stuff so it definetly could be stress
Either way i feel like maybe the T thing makes a lot of sense
Ill try to convince him into getting it checked out c:
I didn't really consider that before

>>33283675 (OP)
As others have said, a sudden loss of sex drive can sometimes have a medical cause; so have him see a doctor and see if there are any physical problems.

If there aren't, maybe the two of you should see a sex therapist and do sensate focus exercises.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sensate_focus

It's worth paying a bit of attention to diet as well - make sure he's getting plenty of zinc (supplements, if necessary) and that his health generally is good; make sure he's exercising and not overweight. (Fatty tissue generates female hormones that neutralise testosterone).

Quite honestly, though, there may actually not be a way out of this. It's entirely possible that he never actually liked sex with you very much in the first place, and finally got tired of pretending. Doing lots of non-sexual cuddling and acquiring an extensive sex toy collection may be your best choice!

>>33283675 (OP)
Marriage is where sex ends. For a whole blogpost worth of reasons I won't needlessly get into right away.

Anyone who says otherwise is a damn deluded fool and/or some formerly-virgin coomer who married only for sex.

>>33283721
>>33283748
>>33283947
bro doesn't have hormone cancer, he's married.

>>33283675 (OP)
How much do you weigh?

>>33284031
Just because you don't get any sex doesn't mean OP's husband is the same. Stop projecting.

>>33284094
Bro marriage is like any other relationship, there's like 56 unique reasons as to why two people start having less sex over time - and also why the most sex is called the "honeymoon phase" and happens early on.

Except that with marriage, it's all those 56 different reasons but on steroids and seemingly for life or until divorce.

>>33283757
>He started college this year and has been working very hard on catching up w math stuff so it definetly could be stress

its this, when I was doing my msc i fucked my gf a lot less because I was too damn stressed

>>33283757
I'm in the same situation and my dick is completely dead from stress

>>33283680
The one thing you can’t change or heal. Leave, no one will blame you.

>>33283680
1. This is obviously a larp thread.
2. "Sexual compatibility" is a meme. The vast majority of problems are easily discovered by communication and prudence.