>be me
>aroace guy (aromantic asexual)
>pretty much never had a genuine crush on anyone, never really wanted to have sex much or anything
>i just wanna be good friends with people
>im a pretty calm but affectionate person
this has been happening so much - i start talking to a girl, because shes a really nice person to be around, we talk a lot and then a few weeks later she tells me she has a crush on me and i have no clue how to explain. I genuinely just want to have fun and be a friend to relax with.
>Anyone have any tips on how to deal with this? I have zero clue how my relationships with others will look like in the future but im just confused.

just tell them you want to stay friends instead of becoming romantically involved because if the relationship ends, you'd rather not lose them as a friend.

>>33284258 (OP)
say goodbye to that friendship because once you say "no", she won't be able to talk to you or even look at you.
though if I was you, I'd give her a chance. you never know what good it may brings and either way you're going to lose her.

>>33284258 (OP)
"I do not feel sexually attracted to anyone. Your crush will not be satisfied."
Then when the dumb cunt fails to listen because AWALT just let her give you attention and trick herself into hysteria, it's not fixable on your end and you shouldn't be bothered.

>>33284258 (OP)
>aromantic asexual
Genetic deadend bloodline failure is a better title. Maybe you can start listing that after your name. Just tell her the truth and say you'd rather die alone and childless than date her. She'll understand.

>>33284258 (OP)
im rusious, do asex masturbate ?

>>33284258 (OP)
>im just confused
Yeah no shit, symptom number one zillion of having chronic extremely low T levels.
Its like trying to treat type 1 diabetes by claiming passing out is merely a sexual preference lifestyle identity therefore everyone around you needs to adjust their lives around to respect your "identity".
Just go to a doctor, get your bloodwork done, see what's wrong with you, maybe get it fixed the usual medical ways etc, maybe not, some doctors are total shit and "well technically that's a borderline acceptable T level for a 95 year old man so you don't need treatment" uh huh. Could be a mental health issue, deep undiagnosed depression perhaps an anxiety disorder, who knows. I don't think OP will fix OPs medical issue by turning it into an identity.

>>33284258 (OP)
>she tells me she has a crush
what grade are you in

>>33284870
>>33287099
>>>/pol/
you have to go back

>>33284258 (OP)
"I'm not gay, but it might help if you think of me as gay. I cannot respond to the signals you want me to respond to, and I cannot provide what you want me to provide. This does not say anything negative about you, it just works out this way as a matter of circumstance."

>>33284258 (OP)
>aromantic asexual
not a real thing lol
you have a hormonal deficiency

>>33287109
what does that have to do with a serious medical condition?