Getting a kiss close - /adv/ (#33284725) [Archived: 1297 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:17:54 AM No.33284725
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PUA bros how do I get a kiss close? I learned some game and I'm all good at talking at women and shit but I really can't sexualize the talk and turn it sexual, and I pussy out big time when I have to go for the kiss or scalate physically. Any thing I can think of/remember at that time? I already fucked up at least two dates like this.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:19:10 AM No.33284729
>>33284725 (OP)
1. Be horny
2. Don't pretend you aren't horny.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:21:31 AM No.33284734
>>33284725 (OP)
you aren't good at talking to women if you can't flirt and make the conversation charged without being explicitly sexual
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:26:23 AM No.33284744
>>33284725 (OP)
keep on radiating confidence and the calmest, jokiest version of yourself and it will just happen. You just need to be able to look her right in the eyes and keep eye contact, if she likes you she'll give you a sweet charming look and your body will know it's time. That or she'll just throw herself at you if you keep calm and happy, yet connected to that moment with her
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:28:19 AM No.33284751
>>33284725 (OP)
Instead of being a pussy, tell her to kiss you. Don't ask, that is cringe.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:29:58 AM No.33284756
>>33284744
ya the key tell basically every time is that she's the one gawking/mirin you and she keeps it up even when you break eye contact or you find her looking when you didn't initiate it

then you just look and lick your lips and lean in slowly and turn your head to not bump noses and if she mirrors you it's fine
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 3:34:01 AM No.33284771
>>33284734 >>33284744
i can do this but i just pussy out at the end and get nervous or just end actually looking not interested.
>>33284729
ok this may be good advice after talking for some time doing the exact opposite first
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:51:35 AM No.33285014
>>33284725 (OP)
>>33284771
this guy is a pussy.keep replying hopefully he'll cum
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:56:13 AM No.33285033
>>33285014
huh? you sound retarded
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:42:56 AM No.33285222
>>33285033
sure and your wonderful mother is a virgin. btw dont type huh? ask chatgpt if you're lost. you light seight fook you aint shiate
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 7:02:04 AM No.33285532
>>33284744
This. In all the times I "escalated" with a woman (which isn't many tbf, usually they escalate on me) it was just a matter of looking really deeply into each others eyes before eventually just going for it. When you know you know. If you've never experienced this then it isn't a matter of being inept, you've just genuinely never been in the situation before.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:24:15 PM No.33286735
>>33285532
dude i've had a girlfriend but still i had to ask her for the first kiss. it's beeen a long time since then though so i probably forgot how it was done kek
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 7:56:52 PM No.33287510
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>>33285222
>ask chatgpt if you're lost.
i tried, all it says is vague bullshit that will 100% keep me in the friendzone. it absolutely refuses to be clear about when i can escalate sexually and say the things that are really on my mind so she can reciprocate with her own nasty talk
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:00:19 PM No.33287525
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>>33287510
like seriously, it'll do 1000 words with no actionable advice, it's no better than asking your mom or auntie
>do gentle mischief
at this point i think the algorithm is just engineered to make sure you NEVER learn how to get out of the death spiral. it's being programmed to remove incels from the gene pool
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:21:29 PM No.33287644
>>33284725 (OP)
Jesus you can't speak English for a starter.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:51:00 PM No.33288039
>>33284725 (OP)
PUA stuff is 90% bullshit. Don't trust it.

I always used to ask a girl before kissing her. The trick is do it in a way which is good-humoured (and makes her smile), and makes it clear that you are expecting her to say yes, but also that she could, in theory, say no if she wanted to.

You might, for example, look exaggeratedly thoughtful and say "Hmm.... I think perhaps I ought to kiss you at this point." (friendly grin)."What do *you* think?"

Obviously you've got to pick your moment, when the conversation is flowing well and she's obviously having a good time.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 9:51:43 PM No.33288045
>>33284725 (OP)
What is a kiss close, on second thought I don't want to know.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 10:10:50 PM No.33288137
>>33288045
In the contemporary sociosexual landscape, the k-close (kiss close) has been tragically devalued by casual smooch exchange, often mistaken for meaningful connection by romantically illiterate males. Modern men, indoctrinated by Hollywood sentimentality and Mediterranean frivolity, confuse arbitrary lip contact with female investment. This is a grave category error.

A proper k-close is not technically just a kiss... it is a submission protocol. It must be executed as a calibrated demonstration of frame control and emotional primacy. The apex maneuver is tongue reception, not initiation. A woman with genuine interest will instinctively suck on the male tongue when it is offered without desperation. This is not affection. It is an oral concession of psychological territory. If she is ovulating and you are compatible partners biologically, she will physically taste sweetness when your tongue is massaging her gums.

Anything less, closed-mouth pecking, cheek contact, or the abominable "kiss on the forehead" maneuver is relegated to low-investment beta signaling. These gestures are literally worse than women avoiding you entirely. Every woman who sees you submitting to "sweet" smooches in public is getting signaled that you are beta provider on the bottom bunk.

I. Geopolitical Aside

Continental Europe, long compromised by café socialism and unearned self-confidence, normalized meaningless public displays of mouth contact. This behavior is not romantic. It is an operational smokescreen, designed to obscure lack of true selection pressure.

II. Timing the Close

Attempting a k-close prior to establishing verbal compliance and synchronized breathing is amateur-tier. Instead, one must monitor her microcalibrations: eye dilation, speech pausing, neck exposure. Once these converge, the tongue is offered, not inserted into the space. She must choose to take it.

(tl;dr Kissing is fundamentally about indicating receptivity for oral sex.)
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 10:42:03 PM No.33288246
take a few lessons in high jump diving. the feeling of taking that final leap, off the diving board, or leaning in for a first kiss. they're the same feeling. overcome one, overcome both
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 12:47:37 AM No.33288469
>>33284725 (OP)
You need to work your way up towards a kiss, and you need to get a solid read on her. Unless either of you have a social problem like autism, both of you should recognize the pattern.

I recommend you begin by simply touching her, not in a sexual way. Nudge her a little bit, put your arm on her shoulder, or find an excuse to touch her hand. For example, ask if you can see her nails or jewellery if she's wearing any, and compliment her hands. If you get her excited, signal her for a high-five or a hug. Little interactions like this, in high-frequency, will inevitably bring both of you closer. She may even do this herself, and you should respond by taking it just a bit further until you and her feel comfortable enough for a kiss.

If she's not into you sexually, she will show signs of awkwardness or discomfort. In the rare case where she's simply extremely shy, just take it slow. You'll know if she's extremely shy if she's uncomfortable touching but she continues wanting to spend time with you.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 1:29:23 AM No.33288597
>>33288246
kek not bad advice actually. i'm on my way of doing scary shit cause i have always been a pussy
>>33288469
yeah this "touch scalating" thing is the classic advice. i tried this shit but it was pretty akward. like i graved her and she was fine with it but then I didn't know what to do and just took my arm back KEK. i think instead of "gaugung" and doing is in stedp you shoudl try to scalate as inmmidiately as possible