>>33285245 (OP)Yes, in the sense that a human mind is designed to be cursed. When you expose a human mind, particularly a young one, to certain coping mechanisms and traumatic exposure you essentially hardwire certain psychosomatic responses. You can expose someone to enough violence or sexual abuse or abandonment to program the emotional associations in their minds that, for the most part, are near permanent. It takes years and years and years of therapy, for example, to get someone to really dig up and conceptualize a fear of abandonment or a normalization to physical violence instilled by a parent. So, long story short, most of the patterns often appear in people's lives in a subconscious way. People are often bewildered why they keep getting pulled into abusive relationships or getting fired from their jobs or having drama happen around them in their personal lives with zero conscious awareness that they are choosing these things over and over and over. This is, in a sense, a curse - a force beyond your conscious control unrelentingly wrecking havoc on your life. Addiction, co-dependence, abuse. We do most of it to ourselves.