my immediate family (except dad) are all unemployed neet losers with 0 hobbies. they scroll tiktok/game all day.

This has a profound effect on me. It's true that:
>1: your environment shapes you
>2: you are the "average" of the people closet to you

how do i escape this fate? It feels like I cant escape their loserdom effect.

You’re on 4chan, anon. Go to a library or something.

Yeah I relate to this. My dad is a former trucker for Walmart who then lost this job and ran off to live with his now then 75 year old mother when he was 49 and she is now 90 and he's 64 still living there. Last time I saw them he literally stunk up the house and ruined the old nostalgic grandmas house scent it had when I was a child. I have 2 sisters, one is a mudshark who has a half black kid and is now a single mother, don't even know what the other is doing she might be a preschool teacher which doesn't make any money. I'm a 26 year old former NEET who now works a dead end job as a gas station cashier and live with my mother still just like my father. My mother has always been poor and I have a stepdad who we used to think was wealthy because he claimed to be but in reality doesn't even make that much and just wastes his money on expensive tailored suits and blazers to appear that way. Divorced 3 times before my mom because nobody could stand him but my mom puts up with him because she doesn't want to be alone in her advancing age. Closest to normal was my grandmother, the 90 year old one my deadbeat dad is living with.

>>33285353 (OP)
The first step to solving a problem is acknowledging that there is one. So good for you.
But it’s easy to identify a problem, and it’s wrong to think that just because you see a problem that you will naturally avoid it. So the only way that you will break free from your shitty environment is by actively and intentionally taking actions that align with who you really want to be.
You’re already stuck in your bad habits, so a change will require you to get off of autopilot, and consciously make the right decisions