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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:29:11 PM No.33286751
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If a woman tells you she isn’t sure about getting lewd, romantic or just friendzones you, is it a good idea to make her jealous? Like casually showing her and getting opinions on what other women are saying to me? Can’t tell if it will peak her interest or just cause her to lose any spark of interest that might be there
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:41:00 PM No.33286778
>>33286751 (OP)
>is it a good idea to make her jealous
no. just move on.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:43:29 PM No.33286785
>>33286751 (OP)
>Is it a good idea to make her jealous?
No. Because if it works, you'll only attract at a petulantly immature chick who you constantly have to emotionally train like a dog just to get her to function.

That's the least issue. The biggest issue is if you do it, you become a woman mentally. Only women play gay jealousy games. You're suppose to be an adult male, a man. Men don't cook up jealousy vengeance child games like schoolgirls.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 4:47:16 PM No.33286796
>>33286785
What if I feel she thinks I’m a loser / not a catch whatsoever? That’s where I was going with letting her know what’s up
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:00:12 PM No.33286841
>>33286751 (OP)
If you have to convince someone to fuck you, you've already failed
They need to come to that feeling on their own, not because you're playing childish games

You sound very feminine, were you raised by a single mother?
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:08:38 PM No.33286873
>>33286796
>What if I feel she thinks I’m a loser / not a catch whatsoever?

Fuck what you feel. Your feelings ain't shit. As a man you're supposed to treat your own feelings as optional. They are not a priority in life. Because feelings cause good men to stray as often as they cause good men to thrive. They make you weak but they make you feel strong.
But feelings can never, ever make you strong, only feel strong. All they can do is make you weak.

So who cares that you feel she thinks you're a loser? Or not a catch? Who cares if you feel like a loser. You don't have to identify as a loser for feeling like one. Being a loser is a fucking choice. So choose not to be one, and it is so. That's masculinity. Not the feminine coded shit you are considering. I urge you to reconsider doing that.
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:12:56 PM No.33286884
>>33286841
>>33286873
Thought it was sociopathic charm than feminine. Never done shit like that before, but alright, I will not do that
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Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:13:58 PM No.33286889
>>33286884
Based. Proud of you brother. Yes it is easy to mistake sociopathic games as masculine and cool and badass. But remember that most sociopathic criminal minded people come from single mother households. Aka they are bitch-made and think like women.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 5:16:30 PM No.33286899
>>33286884
>sociopathic charm
It is if you're extremely physically attractive and actually charming to begin with
The fact you're in this predicament and even posted this here means you're neither

Even so, the kind of men that do this successfully have very feminine ways of thinking overall and are super emotionally unstable and irritable
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:31:09 PM No.33287701
>>33286751 (OP)
>Can’t tell if it will peak her interest
Pique her interest.

And no, it won't. If she's not interested, she won't get jealous, and if she is interested, doing this will put her off.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:34:46 PM No.33287724
>>33286751 (OP)
No. Just tell her what the fuck she wants
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 10:07:53 PM No.33288115
>>33286751 (OP)
Jealousy is a powerful tool if she's on the fence about you. If she's not interested in you at all, there won't be any jealousy. Also you worded it kind of autistically so I have a feeling that whatever you're thinking won't make her jealous anyway.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 10:08:58 PM No.33288121
>>33286751 (OP)
Asking her about other women and showing her won't make her jealous, it'll just make you look like you're actively trying to make her jealous which will actually just make you look more desperate.