>>33286796>What if I feel she thinks I’m a loser / not a catch whatsoever?Fuck what you feel. Your feelings ain't shit. As a man you're supposed to treat your own feelings as optional. They are not a priority in life. Because feelings cause good men to stray as often as they cause good men to thrive. They make you weak but they make you feel strong.
But feelings can never, ever make you strong, only feel strong. All they can do is make you weak.
So who cares that you feel she thinks you're a loser? Or not a catch? Who cares if you feel like a loser. You don't have to identify as a loser for feeling like one. Being a loser is a fucking choice. So choose not to be one, and it is so. That's masculinity. Not the feminine coded shit you are considering. I urge you to reconsider doing that.