I have a date - /adv/ (#33287108) [Archived: 1252 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/28/2025, 6:16:38 PM No.33287108
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I somehow scored a date with a woman, but now I'm panicking because I didn't think this would actually work
The plan is to go to the movies and wander around the mall after and I don't want to fuck everything up by being retarded
Any tips?
I was thinking of bringing her a flower, because she mentioned liking roses and she said she is "old-fashioned"
Replies: >>33287181 >>33287529 >>33290718 >>33290865 >>33291988 >>33292896 >>33292917 >>33293659 >>33294474 >>33295916
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 6:19:49 PM No.33287119
Bump because I want to know how the date went.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 6:41:43 PM No.33287181
>>33287108 (OP)
Movie is actually not a good first date. The whole point is to chat and get to know each other, and it's hard to do that while staring at a screen. If you can shuffle it, do the walking around and stopping for a snack BEFORE topping it off with a movie.
Anonymous
6/28/2025, 8:01:54 PM No.33287529
>>33287108 (OP)
Yeah, a movie is just about the worst possible date. You're sitting side by side in the dark for hours without talking. You should do something that lets you talk while you do it.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 5:09:26 PM No.33290718
>>33287108 (OP)
Hey so uh how did you meet her and get her to agree to a date?
t. loser looking to finally date
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 6:08:18 PM No.33290865
>>33287108 (OP)
How old are you? Don't go to the movies. Do an activity instead like bowling. Something where you can actually talk.
>I was thinking of bringing her a flower
I wouldn't.
.Anonymous
6/29/2025, 11:46:17 PM No.33291951
Don't come too early.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 11:53:01 PM No.33291988
>>33287108 (OP)
Don't bring her a flower, where is she gonna put it? If you really are set on the flower idea though, somehow do it at the end of the date. If you are a completely helpless sperg, continue with the movies first idea. If you can keep a conversation though, make the movies last.
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 3:33:35 AM No.33292896
>>33287108 (OP)
If OP hasn't gone on the date yet, flowers are a good idea, especially because its seen by lots of women as old-fashioned and chivalrous, dont listen to anyone else in the thread who says not to give her them. I agree with everyone saying that movies are a bad idea, I'd suggest either a nice dinner, pottery, or painting? If you know any of the things she's interested in, try to take that into account (like if she likes to read, take her to the bookstore).
Most importantly, DONT do the retarded alpha shit that 4chan preaches when it comes to women, be nice, chivalrous, and act respectful and interested in her as a person. good luck soldier
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 3:37:19 AM No.33292917
>>33287108 (OP)
a flower would be sweet though she'd have to lug it around
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 6:16:12 AM No.33293659
>>33287108 (OP)
>The plan is to go to the movies and wander around the mall after and I don't want to fuck everything up by being retarded
>Any tips?
Yeah, a couple:
1- Don't be retarded.
2- Just be yourself.
I know that's cliché to say, but she agreed to the date because she's got interest in you. The more natural you are, the better things will go. Just do the stuff and interact like it's a normal day.
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 10:26:25 AM No.33294474
>>33287108 (OP)
Come back and tell us how it went
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 6:42:32 PM No.33295916
>>33287108 (OP)
I always liked Ikea dates. There's good parking. There's a restaurant or cafe. You can sit there and talk. You can walk through the display area together and talk about the rooms (how would you like a living room like that?) you can sit on the couches, you can even lie on the beds if you dare. You can go through the market area and buy her a plushy animal or a plant? Or some women decoration shit.