im 29 just starting with my career and wanting to go out and feel young, going clubbing and meeting women.

my mom on the other hand wants me to be like a traditional Hispanic where I settle down and she lives with me from this age until she dies (she's 60)

any advice on what I should do? I don't know whether to take care of my mother and have her live with me like a traditional Hispanic family or to move on my own, leave her to be on her own and then bang hella hoes and party. the up side is that she cooks and I don't. I've been a shut in most of my life and really want to grab life more by the horns now that I'm getting my career started... not settle down and live with my mother and make her an sbuela.

>>33288828 (OP)
live a little

Not OP, but at what age does it start to become out of touch, or cringe, to go clubbing or to raves?

>>33289092
I'd like to know this too since I want to do raves.

>>33288828 (OP)
It’s tough because we are Hispanic and family means a lot to our culture. Familia.
Hmmmm.
OP, look….I say take care of your mom but also don’t care what she says. You’re a grown ass man now. You’re the provider here. So what if she does not like it. What is she gonna do? Leave? No. So exactly.

I was having a conversation with my dad regarding something similar. Unfortunately, not many women are going to want to marry someone that has the suegra living with them. That’s the hard truth. Now, go out. Party. Bang women. Do what you want. Don’t live a B life. You deserve an A life.

>>33289793
thanks anon, I'll try to choose a path that involves taking care of her. I am already pretty unapologetically an adult with her so that part's squared away.

where else can you find latinas but in mexican bars/clubs anyways?