how do you let go of idealistic views without becoming a bitter cynic?

>>33289098 (OP)
more context nigger. What type of idealistic views?

Accept that life rarely matches a perfect vision and that adjusting your view does not demand giving up hope. Keep your core values as a guide but allow room for nuance. When things go wrong use setbacks as lessons rather than proof that everything is rotten. Balance healthy doubt with a willingness to stay curious about people and ideas. Over time you’ll find yourself neither clinging to impossible ideals nor writing off the world as bitter.

>>33289098 (OP)
Get different, more realistic views

>>33289098 (OP)
Just have both.
Ideals are what we WANT to build and create, what we aim for.
Bitter cynicism is what we have for the idiotic world that moronic normies have created.