I'm 24 and I basically gave up on actively looking for a gf because I've never met a woman irl I really clicked with and felt like I wanted her as a wife except for maybe once. The girls on dating apps seem especially boring to talk to.
I'm just wondering if this is something I should change because im not very good looking or desirable myself and I'm getting worried I could miss my chance to find a relationship if I keep waiting for "the one".

>>33289269 (OP)
Dude you dont just meet someone and think "wife" immediately. Most relationships even take time to click at all.
Its like giving up on gardening cause youre just looking at seeds and none of them look like flowers to you so you think its all dumb.

>>33289272
Yea I get it but when I've dated in the past I don't feel much of any connection. Like even though I might think they're a good person I already get tired of talking to them pretty quickly and I sense they feel the same way towards me. I guess I phrased it poorly.

>>33289269 (OP)
You’re going to love being 44, single, and childless anon. Of course you should give up on finding a gf because you’ve met with moderate adversity and couldn’t get one delivered to your doorstep by swiping on your phone. You guys are so ridiculous. Don’t need women exclusively through the dating apps. And if no woman can meet your standards to even be a gf, lower them. Don’t just decide to be alone for the rest of your life at 24.

>>33289281
Yeah its a crapshoot. Thats how it goes.
You gotta decide what you want. If you actually want a good partner, this is the process. It sucks.

If you truly would rather just be alone then all power to you.

>>33289284
It's not that I'm deciding to be alone it's just that I don't see the point in /actively/ pursuing like I have in the past if it never ends up with someone I have any sort of connection with.
Right now I'm thinking about just working on myself and waiting for someone I like to enter my current environment (through hobbies or school) because this way i feel like there's a greater chance ill be able to bond with them better.

>>33289269 (OP)
See >>33289280

>>33289269 (OP)
24 is young

My advice would be to focus on yourself - gym, style, career and hobbies. Build yourself up and in 3/4/5 years you'll have a wealth of options.