Preparing for breakup - /adv/ (#33289583) [Archived: 725 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/29/2025, 9:00:03 AM No.33289583
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There are all kinds of signs that my girlfriend has been falling out of love with me and our relationship is now coasting on nothing but familiarity alone but I'm gonna give it a couple of months at best.

Any way to save a relationship where she appears to have fallen out of love? If not, what is the best way to prepare for the breakup?
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 9:16:12 AM No.33289614
>>33289583 (OP)
Typically, no, once the spark is gone it is gone. However, sometimes relationships like these form because some need or complaint has gone unaddressed. Your gf and you ever fight over some issue a lot?
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 9:18:09 AM No.33289619
>>33289614
Opposite: never fought with her even once.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 9:33:25 AM No.33289636
>>33289619
That's much harder to say then. And I don't think you can prepare for a break-up without becoming more distant in ways that harm the relationship. You can, however, make a plan for the break-up (where to go, how to handle finances, etc)
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 9:48:31 AM No.33289662
>>33289583 (OP)
Yeah..? It's called talking

>Hey, you're feeling distant recently. I love you, what's up?

That's if you actually give a shit

>>33289619
This probably means you've never told her what you really want/need when it's lacking, and vice versa

Also 'preparing for a breakup' is retarded. Just end it if you don't wanna be with her.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 9:50:10 AM No.33289664
>>33289614
> once the spark is gone it is gone
No, it isn't. It comes and goes through the good and the bad times, that familiarity OP speaks about is more important in the end. Love is a choice.
>>33289583 (OP)
If you both are willing, the relationship can go on, you need to put in some work and talk about it, tell her how you feel, or try counseling
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 10:33:02 AM No.33289749
She’s falling out love with you because you never fight
You have the type of girlfriend who needs constant drama

Everyone here is retarded and has no idea what they’re talking about
Break something of hers and don’t apologize
Tell her she’s being ridiculous

Then mid argument kiss on her or be aggressive with her body but not crazy far
You will be amazed and how fucking retarded women are

What do you have to lose?
All these faggots are telling you simp shit and that it’s already over
They’re telling you to break up with her
They’re telling you to “talk” to her
She doesn’t want to talk or she would talk to you
She wants excitement
What do you have to lose by listening to me?
Your already failed relationship where she’s planning to monkey branch to the nearest best dick?

Nothing except that you’re a pussy and won’t do it
Faggot