I have no idea how I managed to pull this but I got a gf who is a virgin. I didn't know that and the fact that she is 22 makes that really uncommon. I had no idea about this since almost no girl is a virgin at that age.

So given the fact that I'm not a virgin, how do I fuck her? It's been 2 weeks since we are a couple and I'm getting super horny. We lay on the couch, made out, but when I tell her that we could go to a hotel room (my parents are usually at home) she just laughs it off and says "not yet". She is hot and cute, so I'm going insane. She isn't the one who wants to wait until marriage since she told me it was dumb back when we weren't a couple. What's stopping her?

>>33290428 (OP)
Do you actually believe her?

Just fuck her

>>33290436
Yeah I do believe her. She kisses me in a really awkward way and is shy about most things.

Ok yeah I want to fuck her but how? I have no idea. I've never been with a virgin girl before. Even if she isn't a virgin I don't know how to approach this.

>>33290460
Oh alright I think first misread your post.
Plan out a really romantic date, treat her like a princess and prepare a bed full of roses, nice scents and dimmed lights, preferably in a Hotel.

Don't tell her you booked a hotel prior to leading her to it.

Just have a good date and go to that place after, obviously prepare the room before you guys meet.

If she still doesn't wanna fuck after this, I don't know either.

>>33290428 (OP)
when i was a virgin i first said no to my bf wanting to have sex, but eventually it just happened. i basically just wanted us to be at a stage where we were in an actual committed relationship before i had sex with him. it helped a lot/made me feel like i want to truly be with him when he took that first sex rejection really well and i didn't feel pressured. the second time i felt ready, but he couldn't get it in bc i was too nervous and him trying to put it in kinda just hurt. so later he went to buy lube and then we finally did it lol. so yeah op in case she's nervous and it hurts maybe get lube just in case.

>>33290609
Ok this sounds like a good plan.
>>33290625
Well she said no to me 2 times already but I didn't get mad or anything. Should I keep asking or just wait until she clearly wants it? Because last time it seemed like it, but she still said no.

I'll buy lube then lol

>>33290428 (OP)
>almost no girl is a virgin at that age.
Maybe in the circles in which you travel, but statistically close to 40% are.

>>33290428 (OP)
I went through the same thing; I was 18 but not a virgin, she was 20 and still a virgin.

I just enjoyed my time with her until she was ready to make that next step, and when she was I took it slow and tried to make it special for her. Don't rush her no matter how much you want sex, maybe she'll be comfortable with oral or a handjob.

>>33290428 (OP)
You need to understand that if a girl is a virgin at 22, it's because she has a near-zero sex drive. Any woman who wants sex will have had it by then; so any woman who hasn't had sex at that age doesn't want it. You should expect to wait months, not weeks, before you have sex, and to have it only once a month or less after that. That's the price you pay for getting involved with a virgin.

>>33290625
Being a bf isn't "commitment"

>>33290716
It is college so thats hy
>>33290731
Hmmm ok, but holy fuck am I horny. She was grinding against me so I guess she is interesting. Like, should I keep insisting or just do wait until she literally asks for it?
>>33291172
Well, I forgot to say she wanted to have sex but we were drunk so it didn't happen. Last time she was grinding for a bit and we were sober, so she does have sex drive. What do then?

>>33291388
I meant interested