Help me not hate women - /adv/ (#33290462) [Archived: 771 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/29/2025, 3:03:20 PM No.33290462
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>Be me, childhood was nightmare hellhole
>No father figure, grew up with abusive mother
>at 17 I meet a girl, were each others first relationships
>shes perfect: self-reliant but loyal, driven but not egocentric, confident but not arrogant, smart, 10/10
>date for 8 months, a lifetime when you’re 17

>mother finds out
>somehow obtains her phone number
>harasses her, gf is unable to deal with this
>eventually leaves me (understandably i guess)

>ffw college, move from tank to aquarium so to speak, lots of fish
>upbringing had sheltered me from reality that the fish are infected with parasites
>horrified as women go to parties naked, make out with strangers, rack up 20 bodies in a week, suck dick in public
>when they not publicly naked they form loud obnoxious flocks, talk in tongues in a language I do not understand
>conversations are frivolous or repulsively sexual
>monkey cavemen from 50000 yrs ago probably had conversations more substantive


I’m now 25 years old. I’ve come to harbor a contempt for all women who aren’t her. It’s a visceral, primal disgust—a revulsion not of the flesh, but of the soul, the kind of moral nausea one feels watching a middle-aged Indian man molest a child.

They’re not people, they’re feral creatures draped in human skin, stumbling through life with vacant eyes and a hunger only for ruin. Lacking nearly every quality that sets humans apart from beasts—empathy, self-respect, morality—yet they shriek their demands to be treated as equals.

I loathe what I’ve become, how deep this bitterness has rooted itself. But there is nothing left to be done. There is no hope for me now, no chance of reclaiming something as intimate, as unspoiled, as pure, as what I, what we, once had.

And yet, I’m not sad about this realization anymore, simply resigned, fatigued, defeated. This is the shape of my life now and I suppose I’ll carry it, alone, until the end. Anons, I think I’m completely, unequivocally, irreversibly cooked.
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 3:30:29 PM No.33290557
>>33290462 (OP)
Do not hate women, do not live to please them, but realise that virtuous women existsomewhere out there and hope the other see their error.
Matthew 7 13-14:
>Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
Mary, Mother of God was a pure virgin, free from lust and that is why she could give birth to Christ, and her character is venerated by billions...
I've been an incel most of my life, but the moment i started working on myself and realised that there is something greater than lust, women started going after me, giving me smiles, evesdropping on me etc, they hate me when i ignore them becuase they know that they have no power over me. Lust is their weapon, and you are getting destroyed by it.
Later in life you may even find super successful people who exploit it, and you will feel terrible about this injustice, but remember, they can never take your individuality and judgement awaits each of us eventually, godspeed.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 4:15:47 PM No.33290652
>>33290462 (OP)
Really the only way to solve this is by making female friends. Find women who share your interests but who you are not attracted to. The more female friends you have, the more evidence you'll have that not all women are skanks
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 5:09:47 PM No.33290719
>>33290462 (OP)
It’s funny you spend so much time talking about hating women and yet spend very little time talking about your mother who clearly traumatized you as a child and traumatized you even further by sabotaging the happy and healthy relationship you did manage to form. You clearly have a lot of anger, but are you just projecting onto an easy target and instead of directing it towards where it actually belongs?

It’s just a thought. But I can tell you that “hating” women is easy. It prevents you from having to deal with your own problems, from having to risk rejection and heartbreak and from having to cooperate and compromise with another human being. It is much easier hating people and being alone. For you, this hatred is a defense mechanism, that’s why you can’t stop even though it is pretty irrational if you look at it objectively.

I mean you say it’s hopeless and yet ask for advice. You declare women feral creatures draped in human skin yet at the same time we’re in love a woman earlier in your life. She’s the on exception out of 3.5 billion women in the planet? Very unlikely and absurd. Anyway, you are not thinking clearly, and have a deep emotional issue to sort out. And I have to wonder if as cliché as it is if a lot of this is about your mother who ruined you childhood and directly sabotaged your ability to connect with women.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 8:10:41 PM No.33291177
>>33290462 (OP)
Please just stay away from women and have absolutely nothing to do with them.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 11:36:11 PM No.33291905
>>33290462 (OP)
No, hate them all you like. That way, you make the world a better place by not continuing your line.
Anonymous
6/29/2025, 11:46:03 PM No.33291947
>>33290462 (OP)
>horrified as women go to parties naked, make out with strangers, rack up 20 bodies in a week, suck dick in public
you're just making things up now, and/or confusing porn videos with real life.
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 11:28:23 AM No.33294608
>>33290462 (OP)
I don't know how to help you, but I like your writing style. Write a book.