Thread 33290641 - /adv/ [Archived: 1264 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/29/2025, 4:04:56 PM No.33290641
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it's kind of crazy how much having an IRL social circle changes your life. finally have one after 15 years of basically only being on the internet with other losers

>only had one friend in high school
>after highschool, had nothing
>didn't go to school
>overweight
>anxious
>depressed
>eat like shit
>khv
>can barely hold conversation
>no hobbies outside gaming
>terminally online
>porn-addicted

>FF 15 years, gained a social circle
>more confident
>more competitive with other males in a healthy way
>go to the gym regularly, almost certified /fit/izen
>no longer overweight
>eat better
>not nearly as depressed
>go out most other weekends
>even have the confidence to go alone to bars / clubs now if my friends arent available
>no longer khv thanks to group
>less time spent online

ditch your online friends, they are poor substitutes for real connection which is what every human needs to be healthy. i wont say i didnt get lucky because i kind of did as i got a job with really cool folks and your situation will be different, but trust me when i say it's worth the effort.

for those that are jobless, try some blue collar work. it's rough and it sucks sometimes but the people you meet might make it all worth it. and if you don't like it quit and find something else, there's always another job in the blue collar field
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Anonymous
6/29/2025, 4:13:07 PM No.33290650
>>33290641 (OP)
>tfw no longer khhv thanks to getting a relationship
>still no friends though
>also one of those losers who had absolutely no friends in hs, ate alone at lunch for the whole 3 years
i kinda like it but ngl i still think having friends is 200% more important than a relationship. having someone who's there 24/7 and who eventually gets used to all your weirdness/social quirks won't really help you develop social skills, mine are still shit despite trying to become less awkward for years now.
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 6:24:53 AM No.33293707
Underrated post. I didn’t get irl friends till 25 it’s insane
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 6:33:43 AM No.33293743
im 18 with no friends and it fucking sucks because i missed out on my teenage years just being by myself all the time. i went to a black high school as a white kid so i couldn't really relate to anybody and so i made no friends, the other white kids there were wiggers and now i still have no friends because i got a job but it's a shitty diner and all the other employees are old people, i guess i'll have to go to college to make some but that's a year out