So after finishing school I realised that I basically never got along with normies and was never quite interested in normie things. I don't know if it's part of me never really learning to socialize in a completely different country and culture and everything going downhill in my family life from there or just simply being autistic. Or maybe I'm just weird and somehow never changed.

Anyways, I still find myself craving human connection, I still want to go to a party, drinking, having a night out with my friends but the few times I've been out there it was completely disappointing.

So how do i deal with this?

I want to further tie-in another question, where do my fellow shizos hang out? Where the neurodivergent hoes at?

>>33291924 (OP)
>where do my fellow shizos hang out?
On discord and /r9k/, grooming minors.

>>33291967
>grooming minors.

awesome, other than that?

>>33291924 (OP)
>I basically never got along with normies and was never quite interested in normie things.
where exactly do you draw the line though

like how would you identify someone as normie but the next person as a... fucking whatever you would call them.

like what sort of party playing what sort of music in what sort of setting would you consider normie vs acceptable

>>33292024
No german rap would be a great improvement. But the music is not the main part, it's the people. Normies never accepted me, so why should I accept them?

>>33291924 (OP)
Be creative and learn to be at peace with solitude.

>>33292072
>it's the people. Normies never accepted me, so why should I accept them?
Didn't you say you had friends? Or were those hypothetical friends you were trying to say you'd like to go out with in theory

what was there to accept about you as well

>>33292148
>Or were those hypothetical friends you were trying to say you'd like to go out with in theory

Both. The friends I have stick around do stuff with me beyond my comprehension. They do the cool stuff with other people, would never ever invite me along. If they have choice of spending time with me or other people, it's always the other guys.

>>33292162
>stuff with me beyond my comprehension.
what?

>>33292210
Shit, I laughed at that one. Should read before sending of my replies I guess.

What I was trying to say was, the reasons they stick around with me are beyond my comprehension.

>>33292243
but what was it about you about that normies need to accept?

you're just kinda quiet most of the time or something?

Othering yourself only makes it harder. I get what you're saying, I don't care about reality TV or sports or influencers or normie shit like that, but that doesn't mean you can't find ways to connect. You cannot be that unique. Otherwise you can find people of any niche and plenty of people way weirder than you.

>>33292291
>but what was it about you about that normies need to accept?

Myself I guess, like not shunning me and making fun of me, that would be nice. Treating me on the same level as they treat eachother.

>>33291924 (OP)
one day (not as long off as you think it is) you won't be invited to parties at all. then you'll wish you'd gone to every one

>>33294259
I don't get invited now either. It was just "classmate threw birthday party and invited the whole class"

>>33291924 (OP)
>I hate normies
>but i wanna do normie things
I'm afraid you have retardation and are probably an inssuferable cunt to be around especially judging by the "i hate normies!" stance. Since you have no motivation stop being an insufferable cunt (i hate normies guise!) well earned isolation and loneliness is your lot in life.

>>33294259
>Treating me on the same level as they treat eachother.
But you're not are you. You're a whining, emotional black hole that impotently seethes. You give off that energy here too - so no, they will exclude you because you're shit to be around. Simple as that.

>>33291924 (OP)
Why don't you learn how to adapt to your surroundings and the people in your immediate vicinity? You don't have to reject everyone out of self hate for your own being. Put in the work somehow in life and you will make friends naturally, and even enemies. You will discover that not everyone will tell you the truth and some people you consider as allies can even lie to your face without any remorse.

You can join the military, go to university, or gain employment. You won't make any in person friends if you don't put yourself out there and take the risk to socialize. Socializing isn't like the Hollywood movies.

>>33294419
Sorry was meant for >>33294223 and
>Treating me on the same level as they treat eachother.

>>33294419
>You're a whining, emotional black hole that impotently seethes. You give off that energy here too - so no, they will exclude you because you're shit to be around.

That's actually the prime reason I became like this. I was a goody two-shoes not to long ago, all funny guy, all positive but they still looked down on me.