Thread 33291987

Over the last year I finally realised that I am a fucking wierdo. How to stop being one?

I tried by shutting the fuck up, talking only when asked something, giving neutral answers only and not talking about my interests, but instead of bullying me normies simply ignored me.

I guess that's better but I still want to be part of something, I can't be a NPC forever.

Is it possible to stop being one or will normies still be able to tell? Am I a fucking autist and is it just part of my being?

>>33291987 (OP)
Embrace your weird aspects but play it safe in group settings. Watch what other people do, let other people drive the conversation. If you embrace your weirdness people will like you. Eventually you’ll learn to direct conversations and engage in a more natural way.

>>33291999
>f you embrace your weirdness people will like you.

I did for a while, yet they still never saw me as one of their own. I was just the goofy guy. I still wasn't invited to the cool kids party.

>>33291987 (OP)
It's not because your weird, its because your ugly.
If you act normal and get ignored its because your sub5, same shit happened to me. You could try self improvement, clear up your skin, jaw exercises, hairstyles etc to maybe put yourself 1 point higher on the /10 rating. 2 points if your willing/able to get surgery.

Your face is such a big first impression people will create an idea of you in their head based just off it alone.

>>33292008
you are probably still too young.

>>33292015
Weird attractive people are "eccentric" while weird ugly people are just seen as freaks.

>>33292015
>>33292022

Our friend here doesn’t have any confidence. He needs to build some by joining co curriculars, working out, dropping video games. You can be ugly and confident and people will like you.

>>33292035
It's easy to say this as an average or above average looking person.
I work out. I'm out going. I have a few close friends solely because they got used to my face and see me as normal now. Females either laugh at me or pretend I don't exist in public.

Muh be yourself doesn't work.

>>33292077
You don’t work out enough then.

People are attracted to confidence. It’s not saying “be yourself,” its saying get confidence so people can relax around you. Working out is the quickest way to do that.

>>33292085
>you need too work out and build confidence bro
>well actually i already did th-
>well then work out and build confidence harder bro!
Normalfags will sooner fly to the moon with a lighter and a propane tank than admit the blackpill is real

>>33292008
>I still wasn't invited to the cool kids party.
What an appalling goal to have! You're not in high school. Lift your game!

>>33292119
It's not just confidence. It's learning to be happy with your life. My uncle is alone, unmarried, and single, yet he does not have the same worries a lot of incels do. I think it'll help you out a lot if you put your pride aside, and just learn to accept being alone first before going into a relationship. It will be a good backup to fall on when shit hits the fan.

>>33292171
>learn to accept being alone
This point is the only truth. For some of us the options are suicide or finding some sort of long term contentment in isolation.

Doesn't change the fact that normalfags are fucking clueless when they spout "u just gotta find happiness :) if you need someone in ur life to be happy thats a problem". covid lockdowns had normalfags hanging themselves because they had to go a whole year without fucking.

>My uncle is alone, unmarried, and single
he's probably still normal. just because he never married doesn't mean he didn't play the field.

>>33291987 (OP)
You need to entertain them like a circus monkey and laugh at their stupid jokes and take interest in their boring menial horseshit or they will consider you an asshole, sorry I don't make the rules.

>>33292035
Henry Cavill plays videogames and people never criticise him for it. This isn't the 90s, gaming has been a normie hobby for decades.
>>33292171
>My uncle is alone, unmarried, and single, yet he does not have the same worries a lot of incels do.
Because he is coping.

>>33291987 (OP)
Imitate the people you see around you and blend in? How can it be so hard? Everyone on the planet is oppressed in some way or form. Get to work or go work out. Kill the stress, smoke some weed, drink some alcohol, do cocaine, free yourself from your bonds. You can even commit suicide legally if it's so bad.

>>33292228
>>33294411
you are an insufferable negative black hole. who'd want to hang out with such a draining- self-defeating faggot?

>>33291987 (OP)
Try "quirk" maxxing and don't be boring.
As long as your are interesting people will like you