I've been dating this girl for the last 4 years. Something has happened within the last few months to make me lose interest in her sexually. We have been fighting quite often as well. Leading to these blowout arguments followed by me needing my space whoch simply involves sleeping on the couch and not going to bed with her. She wakes me up and apologizes and forces me to come to bed where she lays on top amd tries to cuddle me. I feel lifeless and null. I dont know if im really not attracted to her anymore or that is stemming from the fights we have been having. I know I love her, care about her but not sure how to fix the feelings which are developing within me. Is it over?

>>33292605 (OP)
Stop cooming, work out more, make more money.
go hang out with other more attractive women, learn game.
Tell her to get more fit and stop annoying you or you'll break up with her and go hang out with Stacy who is a lot hotter than her.

I wasn't attracted to my girlfriend for much at all of our relationship, never jerked off to her.
She was still really sweet and I miss her.
Dunno if I was really in love with her but I did love her.
Idk if this helps at all. I considered breaking up with her for months until she did it for me, I missed being single and the freedom, but I knew I'd regret leaving her just for that.

>>33292605 (OP)
Is she fat?

>>33292663
Was she fat?

>>33292646
Noted
>>33292663
I can relate to this so thanks for the response.
>>33292799
No she isn't fat nor ugly. Petite, slim and nice figure. Idk why im unattracted to her as of lately outside of fighting. I should still want to fuck her even

>>33292646
Just break up if you guys are just forcing it. It'll be hard and you might get that "wait actually we are in love" moment, but ultimately it would be for the best. You sound like you're beyond the point of return and it will fail regardless.