At what cost - /adv/ (#33292927) [Archived: 584 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/30/2025, 3:40:02 AM No.33292927
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Finally got the wife implants. Theyre awesome. Problem is I forgot the outside world would also notice. And its a deluge of attention. And new friends and social requests and going out. How do I get this to calm down without her seeing me as possessive which causes all women to push back even worse than before? We're in our 30s i expected this kind of socializing was long behind us. Its been 6 months so the "initial phase" is still going. Im at a loss. My main concern honestly is the major alcohol increase. Idk im rambling at this point. This is more venting and yelling at clouds than anything productive. Thanks for the read i guess.
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 3:41:32 AM No.33292933
>>33292927 (OP)
>which causes all women to push back even worse than before?
That's in your head, not reality.
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 3:45:22 AM No.33292946
>>33292933
In experience in previous relationships. But fair point those were teen and young 20s years. Im not sure how to go about this.
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 3:47:57 AM No.33292956
did she go from flat to giga boobs or something? i can't imagine it was a night and day difference in attention
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 3:52:09 AM No.33292984
>>33292956
Yeah she went from B to F. Literally the biggest her surgeon would allow. It is extremely noticeable. Which for me in a vacuum is awesome. But other notice and yeah. And its new people to life. Work gym etc. And bars. Were not drinkers. So its drastically different behavior.
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 4:06:01 AM No.33293041
>>33292956
I find this point matters in some regions like an Iowa and not at all in some like a california
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 4:14:08 AM No.33293070
>>33293041
We are in neither. Hoping for responses with advice
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 4:49:36 AM No.33293166
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>>33292927 (OP)
>Finally got the wife implants.
I won't read threads posted by utterly disgusting, subhuman morons such as this.
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 4:56:27 AM No.33293197
>>33292927 (OP)
So the problem is the new social activities, right? Why don't you just talk to your wife and say you don't want to go to bars and you'd rather have more nights at home or different social activities. It won't come off as jealous/possessive because you just don't like the change in your social life
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 4:56:41 AM No.33293199
>>33293166
Just respond to them
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 4:59:24 AM No.33293209
>>33293197
Because she still enjoys it. Ive never liked bars. I havent been tagging along. But then again I havent been as vocal about it as I could be about it. But I think youre probably right. I guess im just assuming she wont want to go back to staying home most of the time. I mean fuck, shes out now. But thats me making an assumption.
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 5:41:36 AM No.33293434
>>33292984
Cooked.........nice
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 5:56:00 AM No.33293518
>>33293434
Idk what this means
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 10:31:11 PM No.33296771
>>33293518
It means you are cooked based on information. Thus anons response of cooked....based....nice to your wifes tittays we will enjoy.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 2:14:59 AM No.33297842
>>33296771
I just checked this again for responses sorry. Also not helpful or true.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 2:25:32 AM No.33297877
>>33293166
>>33293199
He technically did and checked x2
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 2:27:10 AM No.33297879
>>33293209
>Wife gets breast implants
>She begins going out to bars without you due to the attention her new tits are bringing her
Add 2 and 2 here. There's no way you're this oblivious
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 2:35:00 AM No.33297902
>>33297879
>partner gets hot
>realize they can do better
That sucks. That's why you date potato faces.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 3:56:46 AM No.33298269
>>33297879
Not oblivious. Just aware its getting out of hand and not sure how to calm it down and bring it back.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 3:57:53 AM No.33298275
>>33297902
Its not that she can do better it's that she's partying a lot which she never did previously. Its a monday night and shes drinking. Im not a potato either.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 4:01:17 AM No.33298289
>>33298269
You're going to have to confront the very probable reality that she's already cheated on you.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 4:04:40 AM No.33298303
>>33298289
Probable!? Thats a big assumption. Shes not going out in heels and stripper dresses to singles clubs or anything. She left dressed nice but normal. Its just an exploded social life and drinking. And a lot at once. Why probable???
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 4:24:10 AM No.33298396
>>33298289
>>33298303
I know this is advice. But....dont tell him
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 4:35:54 AM No.33298443
>>33292956
>>33292984
Interested
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 5:43:27 AM No.33298633
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 5:47:45 AM No.33298650
>>33292927 (OP)
I prayed for boobs as a kid. I got them at puberty, in the awkward stick that might topple over kind of way that your mom's friends make fun of you for. I got them nonetheless, and I wanted to wear things that showed off cleavage because it was exciting. It sounds slutty, but it was just for the attention aspect exclusively. Your wife is going through what I can only guess is something similar, where she's finally got this thing she's wanted and she's enjoying the attention. That feeling won't probably go away, but your role is to be equally excited about them and embrace her newly found confidence. Treat her like you did when you first started dating, let that spark come back. The last thing you want is for your behavior to come off like you're disappointed, because it might end up looking like you're disappointed with her new body instead. You also need to be kind of honest and clarify that, to rectify anything she might have picked up on already. Just tell her how much you love her new body, even though you still love how she looked before, but that you're concerned about the drinking and being around strangers during that time. That you want to be able to enjoy her and her boobs for as long as you can, and that alcohol might end up leading to health problems. I like possessiveness, personally, but there's also a difference between being possessive and being completely controlling. You have to make that line clear. Do sexier, more dominant shit in the bedroom or something too. And go out with her some of these times, because you want her to be safe and not make belligerent decisions.
Just let the apark come back.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 5:50:24 AM No.33298658
>>33298650
That all makes sense. Steer into it. I do love the additions. Dominant is easy i was holding off on that I guess cause my brain was telling me that would make it worse idk.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 5:53:40 AM No.33298673
>>33298658
Yeah, she's just probably looking for that excitement and change in you too honestly. Make her feel like you wanna ravish her, and that you have to control yourself when she's around. It probably seems like a lot, but there's nothing quite like the rush of having someone you love and desire treating you like you're sexy (but also cherished).
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 5:55:21 AM No.33298676
>>33298673
I was already doing that dont get me wrong. Im a man I wanted at the goods. But im not "popularity" if that makes sense. I also hate alcohol
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 6:11:59 AM No.33298731
>>33298676
She married you, so she wanted/wants you and your attention. She wants adventure with you, pleasure with you, and things that make life exciting and worth living with you. Remember that.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:02:14 PM No.33302122
>>33298731
And other things
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:08:20 PM No.33302140
>>33292927 (OP)
>>33298650
>>33298731
OP she's right and wrong. When i was single working at a gym. There is literally no one easier than a glat married woman that gets new tits. And if you get them to the bar they suck your cock in the parking lot easily and greedily. After there's usually regret. It rarely becomes a thing after a few times. They go back to being about their marriage. But after they get used like bimbo whores.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 3:56:39 AM No.33303229
>>33302140
Well im glad you had the fun. Wifes not that type.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:05:10 AM No.33303260
>>33303229
AWALT anon, AWALT
I'm surprised you have enough self-awareness to know pushing back will only make it worse but not to realize this
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:08:38 AM No.33303278
>>33303260
What's that mean? Of all the acronyms that one i havent seen.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 10:47:06 AM No.33304704
>>33292927 (OP)
Pics or GTFO
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 10:48:08 AM No.33304708
>>33303260
You can fuck right off with that. We're not.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 10:49:09 AM No.33304713
>>33303278
All women are like that**
>t. Not that fat groid
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 12:36:56 PM No.33305078
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>>33304704