>>33292927 (OP)I prayed for boobs as a kid. I got them at puberty, in the awkward stick that might topple over kind of way that your mom's friends make fun of you for. I got them nonetheless, and I wanted to wear things that showed off cleavage because it was exciting. It sounds slutty, but it was just for the attention aspect exclusively. Your wife is going through what I can only guess is something similar, where she's finally got this thing she's wanted and she's enjoying the attention. That feeling won't probably go away, but your role is to be equally excited about them and embrace her newly found confidence. Treat her like you did when you first started dating, let that spark come back. The last thing you want is for your behavior to come off like you're disappointed, because it might end up looking like you're disappointed with her new body instead. You also need to be kind of honest and clarify that, to rectify anything she might have picked up on already. Just tell her how much you love her new body, even though you still love how she looked before, but that you're concerned about the drinking and being around strangers during that time. That you want to be able to enjoy her and her boobs for as long as you can, and that alcohol might end up leading to health problems. I like possessiveness, personally, but there's also a difference between being possessive and being completely controlling. You have to make that line clear. Do sexier, more dominant shit in the bedroom or something too. And go out with her some of these times, because you want her to be safe and not make belligerent decisions.
Just let the apark come back.