My ex bf and my ex best friend are now dating.

Essentially my bf and I broke up a couple years ago and my friend and I had a fallout about a year ago.

Well I find out from a mutual friend they are now dating. Is there anything I can do to stop this? Its super unethical that they are doing this.

>>33294992 (OP)
It was your choice. You did this to yourself.

>>33294992 (OP)
Hopefully they get comeuppance?

>>33294992 (OP)
>ex bf
> ex best friend

>ex
The only relevant two letters in your entire post. NOTHING that either of them does with their lives is in ANY way any of your business.

>>33294992 (OP)
This >>33295434 desu. I know it must feel terrible, but it's not really unethical, since they are both your ex-something, and it has been some time (2 years for your bf, 1 year for you bff).

Just delete anything about them, don't go looking for them in social media, and move on.

>>33295471
>>33295434
Ok but I think they are doing it to spite me which is unethical.

>>33295538
>to spite me
the chance of this being real is very low
better ask yourself if they planned it while they were your best friend and boyfriend :)

>>33295538
Maybe you’re a narcissist? If they’re right for each other, why should they not be happy just so you can feel better? You’re not involved with either of them, they don’t owe you anything.

>>33295579
How is she a narcissist. Anon you're the narcissist

>>33295584
Thank you.

>>33294992 (OP)
>Its super unethical that they are doing this.
No, they don't need your permission and it seems you aren't even in their life so where's the transgression?
>Is there anything I can do to stop this?
Possibly? You could try to break them up, then there would be 3 miserable people instead of just 1. Why would you want that?

>Essentially my bf and I broke up a couple years ago and my friend and I had a fallout about a year ago.
>Well I find out from a mutual friend
Why do you even care?

>>33295660
They are still in my social group so I would have to see it and it is incredibly uncomfortable,

>>33294992 (OP)
>Its super unethical that they are doing this.
It's not

>>33295890
see
>>33295883

>>33295892
>>33295883
I understand it is tough, but it's still not really unethical though, people are free to get together if they want to. Besides, it has been a while.

It would be shitty if they are making a point in rubbing it in, but otherwise it's just people getting together. Cut ties with them or, if you can't, since they are in the same circle, just do your best to ignore and interact with them as little as possible.

>>33294992 (OP)
>Its super unethical that they are doing this.
lmao

>>33295538
Kill yourself.

>>33295584
Kill yourself.

>>33294992 (OP)
>Its super unethical that they are doing this.
Why? Neither of them knows you any more.

>>33294992 (OP)
How old are you? Your ego is taking it too personal, there's nothing that unethical about it besides it just being in poor taste. It's actually very common.

>>33294992 (OP)
Look, imagine if she did this and you were married with a kid. Let them go they are not meant to be in your story.


You really have no options.

If you kill them, you go to jail.


If you do little subtle things like gossip or send them porn leaflets, you're turning into an obsessed stalker freak.


Its best to move away from these toxic freaks. At least you didn't find out the truth after 20 years.

>>33295883
>I would have to see it and it is incredibly uncomfortable
Why? Do you have unresolved feelings for either of them?

>>33294992 (OP)
Neither of them have anything to do with you. Just because it hurts your ego doesn't make it unethical. This is your fault. Fuck off.

>>33294992 (OP)
Shouldn't have broken up with him if you still have feelings, dipshit. You deserve to suffer.

>>33294992 (OP)
Should have kept him.

>>33294992 (OP)
>Its super unethical that they are doing this.
It really isnt though