Thread 33295140 - /adv/ [Archived: 1251 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/30/2025, 3:15:55 PM No.33295140
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How can I have “edge” as a man and intrigue women if I’m forced on disability as a result of debilitating chronic health issues? Can’t work, nor can I drive due to this. At least not now. I’m also 26. Thing is, I’m not even a bad looking guy as I regularly attract decent looking women on dating apps. Just no way to let them know without scaring them away it seems. Can come off as having victim mentality, which dries them up. And even if not, I still think they would subconsciously look at me as inferior, and just burn me in the end.
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 4:48:10 PM No.33295474
>>33295140 (OP)
Bump
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 4:51:23 PM No.33295487
>>33295140 (OP)
Just don't make a big deal of it. Don't go on and on and make excuses or come up with some bullshit story about how it'll change soon and you're actually a man with drive and ambition or whatever

It is what it is. Either they'll accept it or they won't. And I'm terribly sorry, but most probably won't, because in a dating app there are literally countless other guys just a swipe away

Maybe focus on in person stuff
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 5:00:39 PM No.33295520
>>33295487
How can I do in person when I can’t work, drive or attend school? Shit sucks cause it’s not like I’m broke either, I still get money
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 5:11:17 PM No.33295568
>>33295520
Well I dunno what your situation is. Are you housebound? If not you can the badass who does pull-ups in his wheelchair or volunteers somewhere.

I dunno man. It must be frustrating
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 5:22:19 PM No.33295617
>>33295568
Kind of am yeah, I’ve got autonomic issues which causes a plethora of symptoms. At its worst it’s Dizziness, severe brain fog, heart palpitations and chest tightness. Basically it only feels comfortable being out of my neighbourhood with somebody I can trust
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 6:17:28 PM No.33295856
>>33295617
Why do you want to give yourself the extra stress of dating some woman then? How will you deal if she gets bitchy with you for no reason (like women do)? That will straight up kill you.
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 7:30:34 PM No.33296034
>>33295140 (OP)
>>33295520
Lazy motherfuckers be like... there is no such thing as a chronic health conditions that dilapidated you like that.
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 7:35:08 PM No.33296048
>>33295140 (OP)
You don’t. There are tens of millions of men throughout the world with disabilities who die alone. Acceptance is the key
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Anonymous
6/30/2025, 7:53:20 PM No.33296113
>>33296048
Or they could meet other people with disabilities, typical 4chan ass bitch
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 7:54:21 PM No.33296116
>>33296034
You gotta be one of those far right conserfatards, and I say that as a conservative
Anonymous
6/30/2025, 8:13:08 PM No.33296191
>>33295856
Not all women are like that. Hopefully the kind that is even open to my disabled ass wouldn’t be bitchy