Incel, by definition, is someone who wants to have sex, but can't. In practice, it's a man who wants to have a girlfriend, but no woman wants to date.

I'm more or less an incel, because I fit the practical definition, even though I don't interact in the community and I don't share some of their views.

Now, since I was 13, which was before I had the maturity to understand what it means to be an incel (and obviously, long before I knew what an incel was in itself), I've had the desire to date a woman. I don't know if this is normal or not. Maybe it's something common in pre-adolescence. Anyway, the years went by and I reached eighteen without ever having even kissed. I attribute this to the fact that I'm fat and have poor social skills.

It seems that for some time now, all that moves me is the desire to win over a woman: when I take care of my health, I do so thinking that it will increase my chances of getting a woman, and on the rare occasions that I have a good interaction with a woman, I find myself fantasizing about being her boyfriend for a while afterwards (yes, you can call me weird in the comments). I want to have other goals in life besides finding a gf (in particular, college, personal growth, money, sports, among others), but I can't erase women from my horizons.

I'm afraid that I'll only stop trying to get a girlfriend when I actually get one. After all, as Dostoevsky said, men are more interested in pursuing their goals than in achieving them.

I would appreciate it if I could get some advice on how to stop hopelessly doing things for women. Thank you for listening to me.

>>33295252 (OP)
I feel you brother. My life would be so much better with a girl friend. I really wish it wasn't so fucking difficult to get one

Bump

>>33295252 (OP)
>In practice, it's a man who wants to have a girlfriend, but no woman wants to date.
False.
In reality an incel is a man who finds excuses to never try

>>33295252 (OP)
>have poor social skills.
Why haven't you fixed this?
>I want to have other goals in life besides finding a gf
Fine. Do that.
I would appreciate it if I could get some advice on how to stop hopelessly doing things for women.
Fine I will repost this hoary old image

>>33298274
>Words words words
Don't care, if it won't cure my autism or imrpove my bone structure I won't bother with shit I already tried.

>>33298274
>have poor social skills.
Not OP, not you, not him, just me

I'm what society defines a social outcast.
I simply don't care
I can make people laugh
I can make girls laugh
I can waste time with people and normies
I'm fine leaving whenever I want, I'm also fine not going to any kind of social event or a day at the sea with friends, cause

I would rather not do that, I don't like sitting and talking for more than 10 minutes, I don't like table etiquette, at dinner or lunch I simply want to get things done in 5 minutes top and I'm fucking out

Girls do not like this, girls are afraid of me, cause bald, kingpin-ish type of body from Daredevil tv series, always wearing black, always wearing sunglasses cause sometimes I look at others with the kind of stare that most characters from Out and Bouncer have, specially when they are planning to beat the shit out of someone,their dogs and cats are not afraid of me, but common people are.

Don't mind your interests, if a girl is interested in you she can cope with that as long you keep your /pol/ persona out.

But if you are like me and don't want to partake common routines, good fucking luck, I'm aware of this, but sitting on a table really gets on my nerves, that's why no gf, that's why hookers, I should really move to Puerto Rico or maybe Japan and settle there cause their on/off social routines are more bearable, in Italy and other civilized shitholes surrounded by NPCs it is not.

>>33295252 (OP)
TOP APPROACHING WOMEN. STOP USING ONLINE APPS. STOP GIVING WOMEN ATTENTION

Stop Asking Women On Dates, stop texting them thinking you are interesting because you are not. The reason you are getting ghosted is because you text and try to be funny, try to make her laugh or sound interesting. If you do manage to go to the next step and are actually meeting up and then get ghosted, stop taking women on dates. That stuff doesn't work anymore in the current year.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyEdsrfTd6Q
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gK1w1cAKS7o

Most importantly stop approaching women, at least for a while. They are already seething and this will only get worse and worse as they get less and less attention from men.
If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.