There's this latina at work that always looks for any excuse to talk to me when I'm near her. I didn't really notice her at first since she works at another part of the store. Then one day she asks me for help and as I'm talking to her I start thinking "wait a sec... this girl is pretty cute." and i think at that moment she started thinking the same thing too. i start coming up with excuses to go talk to her. then a week later, a new girl started working here. same thing happens, she approaches me for help and as I'm helping her I go "wait a sec, this girl is pretty cute" and then I start introducing myself and asking her questions. the entire time she gives me eye contact and smiles. i start looking for any excuse to go talk to her.

anyways, what makes you, as a man, pursue one girl over any others? i dont really feel comfortable with the idea of giving attention to multiple women (because thats exhausting). id rather talk to one woman until I find out she has a boyfriend or if she has something that makes me demote her to friends only. my goal is simple: i want to find the one woman who i can love and bone for the rest of my life

>>33297824 (OP)
Wait, you can't tell if a woman's cute or not just by looking at her? You have to consciously think about it and it eventually hits you? Are you faceblind or something?

the first girls appreciative glances were pure and true. the second girl is just looking to start drama and fight over you because someone else is being nice. once she has you you will be disposed of and the first girl won't like you either

>>33297891
being a young male surrounded by many young women my age i find everyone around me mildy attractive. so physical attraction isn't necessarily what makes me want to pursue someone (even if it was, i prefer girls that are cute and a bit shorter and younger than me). i find i wont necessarily be fully attracted to someone until i get a feel of their personalities and see their faces up close, and then seeing their energy match mine as I start becoming more aggressive in pursuing
>>33297898
the second girl is new and doesn't know anyone lol