When I was little I needed a lot of help and people wanted to give it to me. I'm still that way but now I'm older and no one wants to. I'm not asking for a lot, I just need a few bits of assistance that would show I'm a worthwhile person worth caring for and I could finally overcome the darkness that has ruined my adult life. I am smothered by inertia and I could do great things if I just had someone to take my hand for once and say 'I believe in you let's make you better'

What is the easiest way to stop seeming like an unlovable leech (because I can't control the circumstances that put me here) and start seeming like the crippled kitten in the wheelchair, an adorable but hurting thing people want to help because they are confident it will be independent and back on it's feet?

(also it can't include asking my family, they hate me now and none of them would believe I've actually given up the bad things that got me here, even though it's been many years)

>>33298148 (OP)
I won't read pleas to receive "a helping hand for this poor little child so he can catch up" posted by a subhuman moron who, surprise surprise, never 'caught up' is still a helpless child whining for mommy.

>>33298148 (OP)
Stop being helpless, pussy

>>33298518
my mother died in 2013 if that hadn't of happened i would be okay now. i can guarantee I've had less help from mommy than 99% of you posting here

>>33298522
ok but how

>>33298148 (OP)
>>33298646
You're going to have to stop being so vague. I'm still not entirely sure what the fuck i'm reading.

>>33298734
ok i am an adult and have burned my bridges. my life has 2 paths
>i keep getting hated and ignored
>i get someone to help me, and i only need a little bit, and my life gets on track

I'm just asking how to make the second scenario happen instead of the first one, because no matter how much effort i put into things as they are now, no one cares or gives me a chance

>>33298148 (OP)
>and start seeming like the crippled kitten in the wheelchair, an adorable but hurting thing people want to help because they are confident it will be independent and back on it's feet?
You are an awful manipulative person, no shit people caught up on that and stopped wanting to have anything to do with you
Man up and help yourself and others instead of drowning in your own puddle of crocodile tears

>>33299561
i am NOT being manipulative, that poor kitty in the wheelchair truly and genuinely is a lot more like how i am in my heart than the way people have come to see me

>>33298148 (OP)
Get therapy. You can't expect people to help you, even if it's a little and they honestly don't owe you that when they have to deal with their own shit.

And honestly, if you're looking for a pat on the back and a "good job" from someone, that could mean fuck all if you don't believe in yourself. The only person who can help you is you.