I turn 20 today - /adv/ (#33299229) [Archived: 1227 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/1/2025, 8:17:24 AM No.33299229
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I’ve been kind of a loner for most of my life. I’ve never had much of a social life and I’ve never had a gf, mainly because I don’t have great social skills. Now that I’m in my 20s, I feel really disappointed with myself and almost feel like I missed out on a lot. I’m in community college right now, I’m transferring to uni in a year. Do you guys have any tips on what to do to make me feel better? Or ways to build up a social life or something? I’d really appreciate it
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 8:37:01 AM No.33299309
>>33299229 (OP)
Have the goal of finding a good woman to marry. That's probably the most important thing you can do at your age. The older you get, the harder that will be as the pool of good women settle down and all that is left are dregs.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 8:39:44 AM No.33299319
>>33299309
I’ll try but most women these days aren’t worth marrying and can divorce rape me if they don’t like me anymore. I might wait for a real misogynist to take power and get them under control before I marry one.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 8:40:22 AM No.33299322
>>33299229 (OP)
you're totally fine. nothing's gone wrong, you're a baby

high school was totally meaningless. no one will know you at uni. just pretend you were always cool and be a cool guy. you can just do it
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 8:47:37 AM No.33299356
>>33299322
I appreciate the feedback, but I don’t go to uni for another year, I was kinda asking about what I can do in the short term
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:41:03 AM No.33300061
>>33299319
>I’ll try but most women these days aren’t worth marrying and can divorce rape me if they don’t like me anymore.
Me again. You have absorbed too much manosphere bitterness. Those people are not giving a representative picture of the world. Satisfactory marriage is the normal rather than the exception, but especially so if you choose well. Select for character more than how "hot" she is and you can't go far wrong: loyalty, honesty, common sense, kindness, courage, uncomplaining.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:47:11 AM No.33300081
>>33299356
>I was kinda asking about what I can do in the short term
Read a book: Succeeding by John T. Reed, which I wish I had read at that age. Have healthy habits, especially being outdoors. Avoid parties and drunkenness (you won't be missing anything).
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 1:47:14 PM No.33300401
>>33299229 (OP)
If you have a job, just get coffee or shitfaced with fags at work.
If you don’t, a good way to meet people in your hood is to work on some old junky car. Dudes come by to rap and bitches dig it.