I'm kind of a shut in. I know I'm not normal, but I haven't been diagnosed as any particular kind of weird. I haven't gone to a doctor because I'm scared they might have me committed or something. I have extreme anxiety, and I don't like being anywhere except home without someone I'm very familiar with.

I don't like or want sex. It feels scary and invasive, like it's going to hurt or I'd get pregnant or something and I don't want any of that. I want a boyfriend though, like somebody I can feel comfortable with anywhere I go. I'd like for him to like snuggling together and being close without it leading to sex.

Is it realistic to hope for a bf happy with an entirely platonic romance? Somebody for companionship and a sense of safety? Like are there guys ok with that??

>>33299730 (OP)
Yes, but in order to find a boyfriend, you would also need to leave the house once in a while lol

>>33299730 (OP)
All I ever wanted is a shut in girlfriend to cuddle with and engage In some hobbies/activities.
So yes, there is a chance. But as anon before me said, you need to go out and socialize with people in order to even have a chance of finding a boyfriend.

>>33299830
>Yes, but in order to find a boyfriend, you would also need to leave the house once in a while lol
I guess that's true it's just hard to feel like I can meet anyone who gets me. It doesn't matter if I meet a hundred guys if none of them are guys who'd be fine with a platonic romance.

>>33299730 (OP)
>I don't like or want sex. It feels scary and invasive
>I'd like for him to like snuggling together and being close without it leading to sex.
>Is it realistic to hope for a bf happy with an entirely platonic romance?
>Like are there guys ok with that??
No. You're never going to find that. That's not what a relationship is and you probably shouldn't be thinking about one until you can sort yourself out. No straight man is ever going to go along with what you're asking for.

>>33299730 (OP)
Listen lil nigga, to find someone like that you'd have to be very extroverted or talk to weirdos on discord

>>33299730 (OP)
Turn to lesbianism, men are assholes, never worth it. x

>>33299872
Why won't straight men want that, and why can't there be a platonic relationship?
>>33299938
Getting out more is really scary. I don't like dealing with people unless I have someone I know with me. I need a buffer.
>>33300087
Would a lesbian be open to this kind of stuff? I don't want to have lesbian sex either, I just want someone so I don't feel alone who likes non-sexual intimacy like cuddling.

>>33301437
>>33299730 (OP)
If you're fat and unattractive no man will fall for this trap, if you're skinny and attractive you can trick a man in to becoming your eunuch

>>33301437
i mean , what you want is not really a bf but rather a friend. i don't think it's healthy for a human to have a fear of sex or it's consequences when in the proper environnement but that's just me very biaised opinion. there is probably someone out there who can do this but you know , you need to find that person and it seems to be difficult for you

the main separator of those two categories is the sexual union.
the way you describe things makes me think you might be autistic , but if you don't care about labels i can understand.

wish you luck , may you be at peace in the end.

>>33301437
>Why won't straight men want that
Because straight men, and most normal people in general, like sex.
>and why can't there be a platonic relationship?
There are, they're called friendships. You expecting a romantic relationship where they're not allowed to have sex with you isn't fair to whoever you're trying to "date". That's not what a real relationship is. Get over your trauma instead of expecting people to sacrifice their needs to meet yours.

>>33299730 (OP)
I think you need to be with someone who who truly loves you. I definitely want sex but in the end what's important is you and I will treat you according to that. If it takes time it takes time, what's important is we're together during it and that you reciprocate with me in the ways that you can, like communication