How do I reset my sex drive/sexuality? I have been exposed to porn at 10 yo, and watched it basically daily until now, age 23. The few times I had sex it didn't feel right, the first time I did nofap for a month and I was able to get hard but I wasn't able to finish, even though it did feel pretty good. The next time I couldn't even get hard, the girl was less attractive but still I figured I should be as as stiff as an arrow. I have done noporn for 1-2 months before but it never sticks, it doesn't feel like its healing me fast enough. I don't even get morning wood anymore. And I am addicted to big ass, literally cumming only to big ass for 12 years, missionary doesn't appeal nearly as much to me. I just feel fucked, I want to be a normal man. How do I overcome this? Am I supposed to just not look at nudity for 3+ months? Did you go through something similar?

>>33300583 (OP)
Do a factory reset by pressing your dick inwards.

i feel the same way sometimes, i was exposed to porn at a young age because i was an ipad baby.

i havent overcome it yet, but avoid watching anything extreme/hardcore just to feel some kind of arousal because that will only make it so much worse. i got bored of regular porn and started watching bdsm shit and it scrambled my brain and now i am disgusted by sex.

when i do no porn/fap it seems to help with my sex drive.

>it doesn't feel like its healing me fast enough

maybe just be patient, healing can take time.

Get out of 4chan, stop watching porn, and do anything else besides touching your peeper.

>muh urges
Literally do anything else besides jerking off. Idle hands are the Devil's workshop. Go run, do some push-ups, draw dinosaurs on a sheet of paper, call your parents, anything.

Your dopamine receptors will stabilize alongside your testosterone and libido. Give it time. The hardest thing is to start, but each day it becomes a little easier.

>>33300583 (OP)
>The few times I had sex it didn't feel right,
did you buy sex from hookers?

>>33301005
I mean just this June I abstained for 2 weeks, but I ended up looking at porn a bit daily, not even jerking off just browsing. I need that Islam woman blocker app I guess

>>33301084
Of course not I would not pay for sex, it was 2 girls I knew. Feel embarrassed whenever I think of it, but at least I made the second one cum a few times with my fingers.

>>33301121
>2 girls I knew.
at the same time? Yeah man, usually the first sexual encounters are more confusing and nerve-wracking than anything. My first sexual encounters was with just one girl at a time she was trying to suck me off and I couldn't cum at all and didn't know what to do with my hands and felt like farting the whole time until my dad shoved his face in my bedroom door without knocking and that was the end of it.

2-3 more sexual encounters later was when I had proper sex and had gotten some of those nerves out of the way, and then it was great.

>>33301138
Lol no, not at the same time. Although I did reject a threesome out of insecurity, but that would have been my first time as well, maybe it would have been better. Anyway yeah 2 separate times, first time was just uncomfortable, didn't know what I was doing, and we were drunk so it was very eh whatever. Second time was way later, different girl, and couldn't stay hard for the life of me, and the more I looked at her the more I was like "man I'm not even attracted to this girl at all". Its good to hear that it gets better afterwards, maybe I should save the one night stands for older me and just get a girlfriend now, learn about it all. I am going to uni in September but I am not sure what route to go regarding women.

>>33301147
>Although I did reject a threesome out of insecurity
Same. girl I was "dating" brought me to sleep over at her friend's house and at one point her friend climbed on my crotch and started humping me as a joke (?) and my gf(?) had to put my hands on her friend's tits and the whole time I was just like DURRRR IT'S LATE OH BOY WE SHOULD GO TO BED

Like I was constantly frustratingly horny, as 16-17 year olds are, but at the same time somehow terrified of sex.
Things got complicated with them, terrible cringe was exchanged online as we broke up, went on some more awkward dates with girls I wasn't really into, then met a hot goth chick at a bar a year later after and fucked her brains out that same night and finally I had that "oh so THIS is what sex is supposed to feel like" moment.

bump

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