I have been with several women, but there is only one that i have loved. it started with a bit of mutual interest, but i fucked it up by dragging it on too much.

In essence, there are many red flags pointing to her being a DA:
1) she is fine with surface level interactions, especially online but as soon as things get a bit serious or a meet up is suggested, she either withdraws completely or partially. then comes back in a few months or a year.

2) she was raised in a family with many kids, which is a common background for avoidants

3) She is only interested in unattainable people, be it feminine gay twinks or k-pop twinks. she's not been in a relationship, despite me knowing 14 guys in the university that were interested

she also has some insecurities, such as being angry about being seen as "innocent" because she is cute.

Obvious answer is "Run Fast, Run Far" and i have seen as much during my research but i am looking for a different type of answer, a possible way forward.

>>33300878 (OP)
She's probably fucking other guys irl. Don't do it

>>33300903
i know her irl, and i know other people that were close to her, she was in my university

as i said, the issue isn't with me, there were other guys interested but all took the L. her family is also deeply religious, and she close with them