I'll be going to a strip club for the first time in my life soon. I'm also a 20 year old virgin who's never been on a date or kissed a girl before. Any advice before I go there? I'm planning on getting a private dance. I'm also a little shy and might get nervous especially with naked girls in my face.

>strip club in current year
good lord enjoy those 45 year old titties

>>33301934
Not gonna say where I'm going but my friend who I'm going with multiple times said the girls are in their 20's

They're not worth it, especially a private dance. I had my first kiss at a strip club without paying. Maybe you will too. Save your money or spend it on drugs instead

>>33301909 (OP)
strip clubs are for sad divorced men to waste the money that should go to their ex-wife

>>33301975
>They're not worth it, especially a private dance.
Why not? I've never touched a breast before and this might allow it. Plus I've never seen a naked women in person before

>>33302010
I think it's exciting at first but quickly wears off. And if it doesn't get ready to spend a stupid amount of money there.
My first sexual experiences were in a strip club.
First one
>Was a family vacation with my older brother
>slipped off to stripclub
>Had (to me at the time) the hottest chick dance on a pole right before me
>head back to the hotel
>Best wank ever when I went back to the hotel

Second experience I went with some friends and had a chick blow me but after the first 5 mins I went soft and just asked her to stop.

After those the times I've gone have varied a lot, once it felt very sketch and decrepit, the girls were fine but something felt off, another time the girls were hot AF but everything was super expensive and just having bimbo sit on my lap and tell me how great I am isn't my thing.

Another thing that really turns me off to those places is that you're hanging it out with a bunch of dudes with raging boners simping for mildly attractive women.

I have had more interesting experiences (not necessarily good) at swingers clubs and with escorts.

>>33302010
Holy fuck, either take advice from someone who has been there or learn yourself. You wanna touch a breast? Hire an escort for the same price as getting a private dance that leads you nowhere for hundreds of dollars

>>33302172
I forgot to add but I'd say fuck it and go. Choose a girl you like and get a private dance.
Just be prepared to spend a stupid amount of money.

>>33302010
>>33301960
>>33301909 (OP)
I can tell by the tone of your voice you're expecting to get some action. You should know that a strip club is a strip club. It's a club where girls strip. It's not a brothel. You're not going to get sex.

>>33302172
I'm going with a friend so it might be more fun
>>33302173
As much as I would like too I'm not gonna hire an escort. I don't want to loose my virginity to an escort.

>>33302010
I'm not one of those guys who says no hookups or ONS on this board, but you really don't want to be any of your first time around the bases to be transactional. You're supposed to have a moment with your sister's friend getting drunk or maybe the weird nerd girl no one wanted to talk to. You really don't want your first introduction to the world of women's bodies and touching them and being close to be a service, it'll mess your brain up

>>33302173
This.
>>33302193
Depends. In Tijuana you go to a stipclub and like half the women there and down, way more expensive though.

>>33302205
Good for Tiawana. You aren't in Tiawana.

>>33302199
Why don't you just save this money and take a girl out on dates with that money? Most strip clubs don't allow touching either.

>>33302184
Yeah I'm prepared
>>33302193
I'm not expecting sex but my friend told me this club allows touching so that's all I really want. Might help boost my confidence talking to women and getting to see naked girls in person for the first time is gonna be fun. Just hoping to find a cute girl I like and see her naked

>>33302204
I'm 20 and still haven't experienced anything so what do I have to loose? I don't want to be 30 and have 0 experience
>>33302214
I can't find women who like me lol

>>33302199
I lost mine to an escort.
>Hire one
>Go to the spot to wait
>Nervous AF
>Hot eastern euro chick walks up to me and asks if I'm the one in broken ass English
>Doesn't look like the pictures but she's still very pretty, similar build
>Practically stutter. Ye... Yes...
>She looks me up and down. Takes my hand and leads me to her hotel
>Dumb smile washes over my face
>Her manager/friend takes the money
>Leads me to her room
>asks me if I'm clean, say yes since I just showered
>She pulls my pants down to give me a blowie, immediately pulls away and says I'm dirty
>Get super embarrassed and hop in the shower
>Come back and apologize profusely and explain it's my first time
>She grins and says, Oh really? Such a handsome man
>Diamonds
>Banged the shit out of her
>Had fun, nice back and forth despite language barrier
>Stayed and extra 30 mins
>Learned a few words in Ukrainian
>Slapped my ass as I leave
Now every time I hear Russian/Ukrainian English accent I get turned on.

>>33302204
However. I kind of agree with this.
While I did have a great time it did mess me up when approaching women afterwards, nothing bad ever happened but the first time I banged a girl out of my own merit it didn't feel so special but I felt good about making her cum and after having a GF for a while I did have normal/special sexual encounters.

>>33302217
It helped me normalize sex a bit more and generally was a positive experience for me, this however can vary a lot.
I think it's fine, just don't make a habit out of it.
Some pointers.
>Keep your money secure.
>Do not get drunk at the strip club, have some drinks before and nurse the bier as a lot of places basically have you buy beers as a sort of fee.

>>33302010
Dunno man. I'm a virgin too, but I've never felt like going to a strip club or getting a prostitute is much different from watching porn or jacking off with extra steps and not for free.
I'm insecure about being a virgin not because I've never gotten to stick my dick in anyone, but because I apparently lack the social skills to find someone who would want me to stick my dick in them. Going to a strip club or paying a prostitute won't change that.
What's the point of ding anything sexual without an emotional connection?

>>33302283
NTA, but your question will take on a new meaning AFTER you've lost your virginity.

>>33301909 (OP)
Bring a lot of cash and don't use the restrooms unless absolutely necessary. If you're lucky, one of the strippers with rub on you until you cum in your pants. I know a guy who ended up marrying a stripper that he met at a club, and he has a micro penis. So you never know, you could get lucky.

>>33302255
How did it mess you up approaching women afterwards?
>>33302283
Yeah I feel this and still kind of do but I'm desperate and starved right now and just want to gain some confidence

>>33302205
Hong Kong?

>>33301909 (OP)
It's really easy to fuck a stripper. Just get either a jaded one or an inexperienced one. Get a lap dance or two in a row from them, talk and be friendly, like they're a barber or something, then offer to pay them 2x whatever the lap dance costs to take off her panties as well. Once they start grinding on you and shit like that, it gets them horny and they all display fatherless behavior. You'll probably at minimum make out and finger bang her if not outright take her home with you at the end of the night. Trust me, this fucking works, and it worked in Miami at some of the more expensive strip clubs. I no longer do this because it's degenerate and I'm trying to be good again, but that trick probably still works. Good luck.

>>33302864
Yeah a ton of strippers are legit sex addicts, it doesn't take a lot to fuck them.