Anonymous
7/2/2025, 12:11:52 AM No.33302322
How come even though I'm a heterosexual male, it's not in my nature to pursue women?
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Thread 33302322 - /adv/ [Archived: 648 hours ago]
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 12:15:00 AM No.33302330
>>33302322 (OP)
You're supposed to be my follower
You're supposed to be my follower
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 12:15:36 AM No.33302332
>>33302322 (OP)
Some dudes are just more passive.
My wife made all the first moves, I put a lot of effort into making her feel special and treasured but she made the first steps.
Some dudes are just more passive.
My wife made all the first moves, I put a lot of effort into making her feel special and treasured but she made the first steps.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 1:48:41 AM No.33302672
>>33302322 (OP)
What advice do you want?
What advice do you want?
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 2:12:57 AM No.33302780
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 3:03:40 AM No.33303031
>>33302322 (OP)
If all you’ve seen is cocky guys getting girls, or smooth talkers, or manipulators, or normie young couples who seemed to click effortlessly, you get tunnel vision and feel like your nature doesn’t fit into any of those molds.
Which leads to a kind of quiet despair:
"I want love, I want her, I want touch but I don’t know how to be like those guys and that means I can't get any of it."
You don’t need to become a pursuer in the stereotypical sense. You just need to learn how to signal, how to invite, respond, suggest, and risk a little without feeling like you’re violating some deep taboo.
>Entitlement to try/socialized permission to act on desire in the limerence literature
The honest answer is you just need reps and practice. Whatever type of guy you are, if you're not disgusting, there's game that works for you, and you just need to talk to girls over and over to find out what it is
If all you’ve seen is cocky guys getting girls, or smooth talkers, or manipulators, or normie young couples who seemed to click effortlessly, you get tunnel vision and feel like your nature doesn’t fit into any of those molds.
Which leads to a kind of quiet despair:
"I want love, I want her, I want touch but I don’t know how to be like those guys and that means I can't get any of it."
You don’t need to become a pursuer in the stereotypical sense. You just need to learn how to signal, how to invite, respond, suggest, and risk a little without feeling like you’re violating some deep taboo.
>Entitlement to try/socialized permission to act on desire in the limerence literature
The honest answer is you just need reps and practice. Whatever type of guy you are, if you're not disgusting, there's game that works for you, and you just need to talk to girls over and over to find out what it is
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:57:53 PM No.33306747
Because woman are gay.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 10:04:55 PM No.33306769
>>33302322 (OP)
it is in your nature
unfortunately, chemicals in the environment, feminist education, and screen hobbies destroyed your male personality
it is in your nature
unfortunately, chemicals in the environment, feminist education, and screen hobbies destroyed your male personality
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:46:20 AM No.33307741
>>33306769
that guy is so fucking based
that guy is so fucking based
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:07:11 AM No.33308086
Because Hegel
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:02:50 AM No.33309203
>>33302322 (OP)
Same. Worst part is some women are already /have already given me signals and I still don't do shit.
Same. Worst part is some women are already /have already given me signals and I still don't do shit.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:43:32 AM No.33309358
>>33302322 (OP)
Evolutionary dud. Statistically there have to be quite a few of them.
Evolutionary dud. Statistically there have to be quite a few of them.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:05:57 PM No.33311192
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:12:01 PM No.33311217
>>33309358
Doesn't work like that, an evolutionary dud would be a leper, gravely disabled, or clinically insane.
OP prob needs his T levels checked, a better diet, little less porn, and a bit more blood flow from activities. Alternatively OP could just be demotivated due to not visually seeing anyone physically as appealing (given there's more fat people in the whole world than skinny people now)
Doesn't work like that, an evolutionary dud would be a leper, gravely disabled, or clinically insane.
OP prob needs his T levels checked, a better diet, little less porn, and a bit more blood flow from activities. Alternatively OP could just be demotivated due to not visually seeing anyone physically as appealing (given there's more fat people in the whole world than skinny people now)
sage
7/3/2025, 8:24:52 PM No.33311264
DO NOT REPLY TO HOWIE THREADS