Iv been having an affair with a coworker for the past 8 months. It went from just a 1 night stand to regular sex to full declaration of lube for each other. Secret vacations. Work trips. You name it....with the intention of living together.

She tells me how she never sleeps with her husband (but shares a bed). Hasn't been intimate with him in 2 years. Always fighting. Has 2 kids 7 and 10. Tells me I'm the one etc etc.

I then sell my house, leave my current partner, and ask when she will do the same... But her tone changed. She told me 'she is not strong enough to leave the kids... Even though I told her she can bring the kids to live with me. She's also afraid her husband will stop her from seeing the kids.

I feel betrayed and lied to. Having been told she wanted to do all this life stuff with me, married. Have another child with me.... I'm now being told 'not right now...' and 'I can't take my kids away from my husband'.

I tried to be nice and supportive, but she keeps saying to me while she's living with them 'I wish I was doing this with you'.

>>33302396 (OP)
You will burn in hell. How does this make you feel? Amen.

>>33302396 (OP)
You deserve it and she deserves to lose the kids.

>>33302396 (OP)
Ah man. This again. I remember an anon last year with an almost identical story. I'll repeat myself for op and other anons in this predicament: /adv/ will not help you with this. The woman you've described is exactly the kind of monkeybranching scum that 4chan despises. Hence these replies >>33302460 >>33302472

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

>>33302396 (OP)
Have you ever heard the expressing "play stupid games, win stupid prizes"?

>>33302396 (OP)
I think you should send her husband a hey girlie text.

>>33302396 (OP)
You made a fuck up of Biblical proportions. To put it bluntly, your gullibility and naivety has lead you to ruin. This was driven by your gross and obscene lack of self-esteem, you fell for seduction because the hollow and empty void that you call your heart screamed for attention.

And you got the attention from a liar. You actually believed her when she told you her marriage was fucked? You believed all the sad stories how her husband was a big bad man? Even though she was the whore who loved and breathed deception, lying to her husband each day? And you are surprised she lied to (you)?

Why? Did she tell you that you were special and you believed it? Is that really all it took to get you to become a cheater yourself and for you to sabotage your entire life? To make you party to ruining the lives of two children?

You reap what you sow. You have sown lies, sabotage, and selfishness. So now you reap it. You deserve everything that happens next.

>>33302396 (OP)
>I've been sleeping with an unfaithful whore and a harlot whose marriage would probably be fine if she put the same amount of energy into her husband as she does for me
>wow, why doesn't this whore want to be faithful to me?

>>33305985
>>33305988
>play stupid games win stupid prizes twice in two minutes.
This is a sign God also thinks so.

>>33302396 (OP)
>has sex with a married woman
>"I feel betrayed and lied to."
Lol

Successful bait thread.

>>33302396 (OP)
>has an affair
>shit don't work out
>I feel lied to
rofl

The nature of the inherent need that humans feel for relationships is rooted in the same mechanism that affects a substance abuser. It is withdrawal. When I realized this, I avoided many situations in which I would have made a complete fool of myself, as you are doing now. However, some situations we feel are wrong or have an expiration date years before we can rationalize the reasons why they would happen. I believe that you have experienced this feeling in your life. You already knew that something was going to happen...

>>33302396 (OP)
>full declaration of lube for each other.
Cool.

OP here

I pulled away, knowing that what I did was wrong. I don't believe the bs about her husband because she's a fucking sex pest with me, why would she not be with him?

I'm being bombarded with texts saying she is terrified to lose me and cannot cope with a life without me. She knows she is being selfish but can't help her feelings.

Im trying to let her down slowly but I'm losing patience.