>spend money
>carry stuff for her
>come up with funny and interesting conversations. >Always having to find cool places to go to.

when does courting a girl finally come off impossible difficulty. when can i finally say "na I'm just gonna play Madden in bed for 8 hours" instead of having to wake up for mimosas with her annoying friends

>>33302869 (OP)
Have an interesting enough life that she follows in your wake rather than the other way round. Then if she won't follow you she's not the one for you.

>>33302869 (OP)
>playing Madden
wtf are you black?

If she cant accept lazy days you don't want her. Stop being blinded by the attractiveness of a woman. If she isnt cool you don't want her. If she is detrating from and not adding to your life you don't want her. If she isn't fun to hang out with you don't want her.

If you are in the early stages and you arent hyped to go hang out with her you don't fucking want her.

My advice is to do what you want and be honest with her just say you are tired and feel like playing a game. You will never have a good relationship if you let her get unreasonable expectations. Shit is going to go badly

>>33302869 (OP)
Don't buy her things and don't do mimosas with her retarded friends. I don't do that shit. If she has a problem with it then just leave, more trouble than it's worth.