Soon I'll be 30 and I've always found fun the idea of having a threesome, the problem is that lately the idea has begun to invade my thoughts more often.
I've been with my gf for more than 5 years and she is quite jealous, which makes it less likely to happen.

I don't know if this is something that I should seek or if it's only a 30s crisis, a kind of "soon I'll have a family, be married and won't be able to do".

>>33305403 (OP)
Sounds like self-sabotage.

>>33305460
Might be

>>33305403 (OP)
why not pay for a couple whores

>>33305403 (OP)
Hey I could have written this post
I think boomers called this the seven year itch
This is the manifestation of an age old dilemm:
You love, cherish and have built a life with your partner, but at the same time you feel sexually repressed always being with the same person all the time. You're getting older and soon youthful attractiveness will be permanently off the cards for you and any new prospective partners
How you proceed is up to you, but know that every man I know who engaged in threesomes in otherwise monogamous relationships either ended up single or an unwilling partner in a now-open relationship.
I think my best advice is to pick one of
>Break up with her and have a midlife crisis
>Accept that you're going to be monogamous from now on and stay with your partner.
If you engage in a threesome, the likelihood of regret during or immediately after the act from one or both of you is extreme.

>>33305623
Then time to discard the idea. Thanks fren. Just a lot of mixed feelings lately but I'm happy with my relationship

threesomes only look like fun, they aren't
>you don't want to share
>and you don't have 2 dicks

>>33305721
Not OP, but it's still bothering me that I might die without ever doing a sex act with more than one person.
It's just a bucket list thing for me

>>33305729
OP here, I feel like it might be cool if you're single. If you're in a stable relationship is a big risk

>>33305729
>>33305790
A few days after my last relationship ended I just said "fuck it" and went to a whorehouse and paid two hot Korean hookers $400 for a quickie (30 minutes) threesome.
Shit was cash, didn't matter that I paid for it. The girls were pretty and enthusiastic (even more than some women I've picked up for free lol), and you haven't lived until you've had a woman suck your dick while another sucks your balls at the same time.
If you really gotta scratch that itch, pay for it and don't risk fucking up a relationship or trying to find a chick who is down for it. I personally have accepted I'm never going to be the type of person living a life that puts him around loose bisexual women, nor am I the rizzler. And that's fine, because turns out paid-for pussy feels the same.

>>33305403 (OP)
>Threesome in your teens or 20s with bisexual girls that don't have a heavy emotional attachment towards you
> :DDDDD

>Threesomes in your 30s with your bitch nagging jealous wife and her fat friend from work
>:|