Are you gonna sit there moping your entire life, or are you going to listen to the people who love you, who told you to get up and start loving and enjoying life?

The first?

>>33305725 (OP)
Fuck namefags and fuck meaningless nonposts

>>33305736
This is to help, not to troll.

>>33305734
Why? You have a lot going for yourself. It's too much to give up now.

>>33305725 (OP)
Enjoy what about life?
>18 (male)
>kissless virgin
I try to enjoy cooking, taking walks in nature, talking with colleagues, and playing vidya, but my celibacy always drags me down.

>>33305725 (OP)
>Are you gonna sit there moping your entire life
yeah

>or are you going to listen to the people who love you, who told you to get up and start loving and enjoying life?
idk about that. they just told me to quit drinking and get a good job, but you don't need a good job if you're not going to start a family.

>>33305775
It's so easy not to try, I'm comfy

>>33305725 (OP)
Don’t use Hotel dusk for your post you cringe tripfag

>>33305725 (OP)
No one tells me this so probably not.

I made some wrong association as a child or teenager that anything that feels good is probably bad. Eating junk food, drinking alcohol, playing video games, whatever. Everything that feels good is bad for you. And so I also made the opposite association. Pain, boredom, anxiety, etc are all somehow helping me. These assumptions made sense on some level but they are ultimately wrong, as feeling good and being happy can be a source of strength. Denying yourself happiness makes you brittle and vulnerable.

The problem with psychology is that it doesn't really do anything. You can be acutely aware of where your thinking is wrong but it doesn't actually change the thoughts that pop into your head. The best technology that psychology has produced is just CBT which is just "do the behavior and the proper thinking will follow" which is also the same advice your drunk uncle would have given you. So at the end of the day there really is no leverage or advantage to be gained from meta-thinking. Literally just keep bashing your head against the wall and hope that you find a way through eventually. Thats all there is.

>>33305725 (OP)
I won't read fortune cookie monster threads. They taste terrible.

>>33305725 (OP)
Can't love and enjoy life when it's beating me to a pulp every time I stand up.

>>33305725 (OP)
>get up and start loving and enjoying life?
I don't know how to do this