How long before I should start dating again? - /adv/ (#33306153) [Archived: 1193 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/2/2025, 7:06:10 PM No.33306153
imtired
imtired
md5: 0c12411731f16f597d3ae4a530c199f8🔍
Recovering from two (yes two) breakups that happened one after another and I genuinely have no strength to meeting more women currently. I am still giving looks to women that are physically attractive but I cannot devote myself to it at the moment.
First relationship lasted 2,5 years and the second one only 3 months and we parted only because we didn't have a common living goal.
I'm tired bros
Replies: >>33306193 >>33306370 >>33306397 >>33306447
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 7:19:34 PM No.33306193
>>33306153 (OP)
How old are you?

Do you feel the need for a relationship at all because you long for physical intimacy or because you long for personal connection?

If you don't need these things, you don't need to feel compelled to meet more women. If you do need these things, there's ways you can redirect your focus so that you don't need to feel compelled to meet more women.
Replies: >>33306226
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 7:28:03 PM No.33306226
>>33306193
21
both intimacy and just understanding from someone but at the same time I am not able to devote myself to anyone at the moment
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:10:35 PM No.33306370
>>33306153 (OP)
I won't read how/how long/how the fuck whatever to get over it/move on/stop obsessing threads. Just turn your attention to something else.
Replies: >>33306387
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:17:20 PM No.33306387
>>33306370
https://youtu.be/6MN4zC7DTdA?si=zLtNE2Ku5_p705fy&t=4
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:19:59 PM No.33306397
>>33306153 (OP)
You'll never find love. Give up pathetic faggot
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:38:35 PM No.33306447
>>33306153 (OP)
When you're already healed and ready.
Could take months, could take years.
There’s no set timeline.