how to flirt with a girl on Facebook - /adv/ (#33307856) [Archived: 1181 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:13:21 AM No.33307856
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I added some girl I never met on Facebook. Kinda cute and a bit chubby. Late 20s. She posts shit like pic related. I like her stuff and leave a comment now and then and occasionally she has replied. Not sure how to escalate it because just sending a message to her feels creepy. I suck at flirting too.

How should I respond when she posts pic related?
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:29:44 AM No.33307921
>>33307856 (OP)
send her a dik pik
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:33:09 AM No.33307938
>>33307856 (OP)
I won't read app-addled threads.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:39:06 AM No.33307967
>>33307856 (OP)
Just heart that message and then hit her up in the message
>Hey I saw your post and want to take you up on the offer
Then you know very quickly if its going to work out. Cause the best way to rizz women is in person. Also most women like forward men
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:48:12 AM No.33308017
>>33307967
Okay you think that's a good idea? We're friends cause we have one mutual friend so I sent her a friend request and she accepted it.
But she also has a "pinned" post complaining about creepy comments and random adds from people she doesn't know. She posted that long after I added her though. idk if that's just some woman test.
>Hey I saw your post and want to take you up on the offer
Should I say "Hey" or cut that out or replace it with something else cause it feels too beta to me? I am really paranoid with the exact wording of messages I send to women now, at least the first message. On dating apps I don't give a fuck but when I put effort into a girl i get more particular about it
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:50:48 AM No.33308024
>>33308017
nta but I promise you she won’t give a shit about whether or not you use the word hey or not, you’re overthinking it
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:59:20 AM No.33308060
>>33308024
okay should I just send what that guy said then and go from there?
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:24:27 AM No.33308169
>>33308060
I mean sure why not? I think you are overthinking it and you just need to do it. Be more assertive. If it doesn't work out what is the worst that could happen?
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:30:44 AM No.33308189
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>>33308169
okay I just did it. I'll check back in a few hours see if she responded.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:31:23 AM No.33308193
>>33308189
Nice, let us know what happens
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:31:48 AM No.33308195
>>33308017
>But she also has a "pinned" post complaining about creepy comments and random adds from people she doesn't know.
So she's outright telling everyone she's got at least a dozen guys in her inbox. It's a gladiator pit of internet orbiters, not worth it imo.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:39:33 AM No.33308226
>>33308189
Hey good luck. If you get it then sweet. If not, then no skin off your back. Just remember that.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 6:45:56 AM No.33308683
>>33308195
yeah lol
I'm not willing to orbit for that long anymore I'm too old for that shit
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 6:51:56 AM No.33308693
>>33308683
Least you have a solid vision of reality about it now. Off chance she bites and you get your dick wet, have fun anon.