Thread 33308656 - /adv/ [Archived: 687 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/3/2025, 6:33:39 AM No.33308656
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>at small event with friends and my fiancée
>her bestie scrolling through Insta
>"lmao girl your ex got some girl pregnant, didn't he say he didn't want kids? maybe he just didn't want them with you"
>fiancée starts sobbing within 15 seconds
>room silent, awkward as fuck
>I sip beer
>everyone look at us
>she stop sobbing after 2 minutes and apologize in private

It's amazing how 3 years of relationship can end within 2 minutes and a few seconds. I almost married that woman. Im depressed.

And i'm starting to suspect that your first love's the only real one,
and the rest just come along
so you can forget the first.
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advice
7/3/2025, 6:41:52 AM No.33308672
>>33308656 (OP)
so your wife is sad and now you are the victim some how?
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7/3/2025, 6:45:15 AM No.33308681
>>33308656 (OP)
she probably planned to be with this guy, she is committed, that’s why she wanted to marry you. she is sad because for woman having a kid is something people push as a value into woman since they are kids (selling baby toys for ex)

for her is like her value decreased. imagine yourself in that situation, would you like it? don’t be a narcissist
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7/3/2025, 6:50:16 AM No.33308690
>>33308656 (OP)
btw you obviously post this in an incel shithole because you want validation from strangers to say “feel u bro”, you are not the victim
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 7:49:46 AM No.33308913
>>33308672
>>33308681
>>33308690
You're a moron, namefag.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:55:23 AM No.33309176
>>33308681
Look up what a narcissist means retard.
>Narcissism is extreme self-involvement to the point where a person ignores the needs of those around them.
If i get on with someone becuase i don't wanna be alone and never love them, but they love me back, then i'm being a narcissist.
She doesn't care a bit about her current bf, it destroyed her ego and he'll always be relegated to a second option, no rational/loyal person would feel devalued in this case.
>>33308690
Nothing wrong with spreading truth, stop acting like like your shit smells better
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:57:54 AM No.33309186
>>33308656 (OP)
I can't imagine getting married to a woman in the big '25. You're genuinely retarded for even being in this position.
advice
7/3/2025, 9:06:58 AM No.33309225
>>33309176
why wound’t she care ? lol
like, fr, she having some unresolved feelings about her ex doesn't null her feelings towards her actual bf.
emotional intelligence much?

also im vegetarian so yes, my shit smells better.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:04:01 PM No.33311372
thread is on /r/4chan now. probably posted by OP himself
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:09:47 PM No.33311385
>>33308656 (OP)
The fact that you somehow made this whole thing about you absolutely astonishing.
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:31:36 PM No.33311579
>>33309225
>doesn't null her feelings towards her actual bf
correct, she truly feels her actual boyfriend is emotional tampon and a reserve.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:35:09 PM No.33311594
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Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:42:47 PM No.33311618
>>33308656 (OP)
>And i'm starting to suspect that your first love's the only real one,
You have the accept this for the truth that it is. It doesnt mean that you cant still be happy with another person. Her friends comment was pretty cruel too and women are women. Idk what else to tell you amigo. Gl
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:43:57 PM No.33311621
>>33308656 (OP)
Can't you just call her bestie a fat wench?
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 10:49:28 PM No.33311651
>>33309225
I appreciate you trying to bring some nuance into this, but from my experience, when you're really into and happy with your current partner, you just forget about your past. Or rather you stop caring. So yeah OP is right to bump out of the relationship.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 12:38:48 AM No.33312041
>>33311385
What’s wrong with that? Imagine being with someone for years and finding out they’re STILL not over their ex and are still hung up about them enough to cry at the drop of a hat. OP was a second choice rebound and even if they married, it would be so
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:14:00 AM No.33312128
>>33312041
>they’re STILL not over their ex and are still hung up about them enough to cry at the drop of a hat.

The implication wasn’t that OP’s fianceé cried because she misses the ex. (OP seems to believe that. Thats because OP most likely has autism and only sees things ar face value.)

His fianceé cried because her bestie implied she was ugly. That was the verbal stab that offended her.

>wow sis, your ex didnt want kids with you. Cuz he now has them with someone else. It means it was (you) who turned him off kids. Because you were not good enough.

That's the implication. And it was thrown on her at random in the company of her fiance, OP. Which would feel humiliating.

But OP being the mouth-breathing sperg he is cant understand emotional nuance. He only thinks in 2-D, not 3-D. Such is the life of a sperg.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:20:22 AM No.33312144
>>33312128
>the real emotional nuance is she got called ugly and cried like she’s 5 years old
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 1:22:34 AM No.33312151
>>33308656 (OP)
>maybe he just didn't want them with you
Strike 2 LMAO