Anonymous
7/3/2025, 6:47:48 AM No.33308688
There's this girl I work with, whom I was taken with at first sight. I'm interested in her for who she is, the way she walks, talks, dresses, does her hair, etc.. And she's beautiful, too. I think she's perfect.
I started going to the gym again, eating healthy, sleeping well, taking vitamins, practicing social skills, and I quit drinking (to moderate success), all to prepare to ask her out.
For some more context: she's definitely a sperg. And because of that I think she's lost in translation, and slipped through the cracks. Based on our conversations and the way she carries herself, I think she's a tortured soul. She's always tired, quiet, and sort of timid. She sinks into herself all the time. I think she's very lonely.
Anyway, we both create. She does slightly spergy stuff, a lot of JoJo drawings, which I guess is one of our common interests. I showed her some of my own sketches and what not, which may be the only thing I'm good at, and we bonded over our shared interest in the medium. We agreed to bring our actual, physical paintings to work tomorrow, because seeing the paint physically on paper is just different than a photo.
Finally to the point: I've been thinking a lot about how I'm going to ask her out. I guess I'm insincere in my interactions with the world, so nobody's really seen the real me, at least in a long time, and these paintings, though not my greatest works, are the truest expressions of myself. I'm thinking of bringing one or both, and I don't know if the gesture would intrigue her, or scare the shit out of her. If it's the former I'll ask her out the day of.
I really don't want to scare her off. I've had little crushes and what not, but I think I'm in love with her. We've had talks of dead dreams and self-harm, so this wouldn't be COMPLETELY out of left field. At the same time I know nobody wants a project car, and I don't want her to think that of me. What should I do?
I started going to the gym again, eating healthy, sleeping well, taking vitamins, practicing social skills, and I quit drinking (to moderate success), all to prepare to ask her out.
For some more context: she's definitely a sperg. And because of that I think she's lost in translation, and slipped through the cracks. Based on our conversations and the way she carries herself, I think she's a tortured soul. She's always tired, quiet, and sort of timid. She sinks into herself all the time. I think she's very lonely.
Anyway, we both create. She does slightly spergy stuff, a lot of JoJo drawings, which I guess is one of our common interests. I showed her some of my own sketches and what not, which may be the only thing I'm good at, and we bonded over our shared interest in the medium. We agreed to bring our actual, physical paintings to work tomorrow, because seeing the paint physically on paper is just different than a photo.
Finally to the point: I've been thinking a lot about how I'm going to ask her out. I guess I'm insincere in my interactions with the world, so nobody's really seen the real me, at least in a long time, and these paintings, though not my greatest works, are the truest expressions of myself. I'm thinking of bringing one or both, and I don't know if the gesture would intrigue her, or scare the shit out of her. If it's the former I'll ask her out the day of.
I really don't want to scare her off. I've had little crushes and what not, but I think I'm in love with her. We've had talks of dead dreams and self-harm, so this wouldn't be COMPLETELY out of left field. At the same time I know nobody wants a project car, and I don't want her to think that of me. What should I do?
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