What does it mean when a female peer says she can't imagine you in a romantic context/being interested someone romantically?

>>33309493 (OP)
That she can't see you dating or with someone.

>>33309493 (OP)
You're not attractive/have 0 charm/give off 0 sexual energy
Decent amount of above average-good looking guys who are still perma virgins because they're spergs and don't give off good vibes

She cant imagine YOU in a romantic context=she doesn’t like you. She would not consider having a relationship with you.
She cant imagine ANYONE in a romantic context=shes aromantic.

she has put you in the "herbivore men" category. kinda like the friendzone, but worse.

>>33309493 (OP)
I used to be an alcoholic drug addicted club crawler and you wouldn't believe how many guys like this there are. They're 6'3" with hair like a shampoo commercial and a jawline that can cut glass. They're also daydrinking cokeheads on welfare who dropped out of high school, never had a job in their whole life and their only skill is superficial charm resulting from constant female validation since age 13 when they shot up to adult height over the course of one summer vacation. Their girlfriends are invariably beautiful, younger, college educated, financially well off stacies from rich families who binge drink and snort marching powder once a month. They tolerate Chad being a "manchild" that leeches off them just fine until they outgrow the clubs (ie start feeling old next to the pre-wall girls) and get the itch for kids in their 30s. Then Chad gets another. Chad does this until he's 40. These guys really live like those lovable immature womanizer Hollywood characters in entertainment. It really is a different universe for them. Average or below guys increasingly just give up on relationships for good reason. She will never lust after you like she did for that deadbeat junkie no matter how much you make or how responsible you are or whatever else if you're average. Not to even speak of the poor bastards who are short, go bald early, keep a babyface, etc. Nothing can help them at all. Life is a beauty contest, that's all.

>>33309493 (OP)
It means it's over

>>33309493 (OP)
you have 0 rizz papa gronk

>>33309493 (OP)
i've been in the same boat, with less words. Women want the shit they claim to hate. You can play some retarded act, or just opt out. They want drama and excitement. I'd never recommend alcoholism, speaking from experience. But if you just want to net retarded roasties, make a habit of grabbing the bottle first thing in the morning and never giving an actual coherent explanation for why you drink. Withdrawls are hell, but hey, at least you got laid.

tl;dr women are idiots.

Sexual signaling is how people nonverbally show they’re open to being seen as a potential partner through body language, grooming, eye contact, and confidence. Being sexually legible means others can recognize you as a viable sexual being. For most men, getting women is very important, so they are optimizing all sorts of traits to attract women, even if they're executing poorly. If your posture, energy, and presence don’t signal confidence or self-respect, women filter you out. Becoming legible isn’t about being hot, it’s about vibe, body, and intent aligning so others can tell what you are. Your friend is basically saying she can't detect any way in which you're trying to appeal to women.

>>33309643
Makes a lot of sense thank you

>>33309493 (OP)
it means you've never shown interest in women in front of her and behave like you don't in general so she can't picture it
I never used swear words with friends and I have a large vocabulary in my language compared to other people
so when people hear me say a swear word they short circuited
that's just it
doesn't mean anything beyond that.

>>33309643
This kind of happened with a female friend of mine, just with the gender reversed. She seemed basically asexual to me, and she even talked about maybe just being alone forever in a positive light. I was actually shocked when she got a boyfriend. I just hadn't been able to imagine her like that.

ur ugly, but if you change your personality, you have hope

>>33309493 (OP)
she think ur austitic and weird and she hates you

>>33309523
>I used to be an alcoholic drug addicted club crawler and you wouldn't believe how many guys like this there are. They're 6'3" with hair like a shampoo commercial and a jawline that can cut glass. They're also daydrinking cokeheads on welfare who dropped out of high school, never had a job in their whole life and their only skill is superficial charm resulting from constant female validation since age 13 when they shot up to adult height over the course of one summer vacation. Their girlfriends are invariably beautiful, younger, college educated, financially well off stacies from rich families who binge drink and snort marching powder once a month. They tolerate Chad being a "manchild" that leeches off them just fine until they outgrow the clubs (ie start feeling old next to the pre-wall girls) and get the itch for kids in their 30s. Then Chad gets another. Chad does this until he's 40. These guys really live like those lovable immature womanizer Hollywood characters in entertainment. It really is a different universe for them. Average or below guys increasingly just give up on relationships for good reason. She will never lust after you like she did for that deadbeat junkie no matter how much you make or how responsible you are or whatever else if you're average. Not to even speak of the poor bastards who are short, go bald early, keep a babyface, etc. Nothing can help them at all. Life is a beauty contest, that's all.

Yea I've seen it first hand with this junkie who wasn't even attractive but he would get more women than me and I look better which proves looksmaxxing doesn't mean shit if you're an awkward sperg like me. I had a lot of sex when I was younger so I've already sown my oats and don't care anymore.

>>33309493 (OP)
That she views you as subhuman she just doesn't want to say it

>>33309523
late stage civilization vibes