Thread 33312494 - /adv/ [Archived: 1154 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:01:58 AM No.33312494
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how to stop being needy over a woman? We aren’t dating, but she might be interested
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:03:37 AM No.33312501
>>33312494 (OP)
Why do you think you're needy?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:11:12 AM No.33312524
>wanna go on a date? I have a whole romantic evening planned
>yes or no
>okay, I understand now
Why are you such a faggot. Even the most socially uninterested Anon knows to just be and express how you are
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:12:19 AM No.33312527
>>33312494 (OP)
>needy
Stop being needy and start being greedy. Your welcome
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:15:30 AM No.33312542
>>33312501
Because I feel like I’m always waiting for her reply, and wondering why she hasn’t replied for hours

>>33312524
I’d do that. Only We’re talking on Instagram and she’s the next state over. Matched on bumble
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:16:37 AM No.33312547
>>33312542
>Because I feel like I’m always waiting for her reply, and wondering why she hasn’t replied for hours
Just go to Chili's and call the waitress darling and ask her invasive questions. That will make you feel like a man
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:19:11 AM No.33312554
>>33312542
Holy fuck dude, MOVE ON
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:25:15 AM No.33312582
>>33312554
Why do you say it like it’s that bad?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:26:35 AM No.33312587
>>33312494 (OP)
why would you be needy over a woman you haven't dated? that's like just charging into chugging 3 week milk without sniffing it first. you don't even know if it's good
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:26:59 AM No.33312590
>>33312582
Because it isn't bad and you're being a huge faggo, as OP always is
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:27:46 AM No.33312596
>>33312587
Because it’s the 4chan advice board. I’m obviously not that experienced with women, and I’m just taken aback by how much her and I have in common
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:53:16 AM No.33312687
>>33312494 (OP)
Goon a lil bit and find something else to focus on. Not that hard
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:57:55 AM No.33312716
>>33312494 (OP)
modern day simphood is a disease
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:03:18 AM No.33312743
You're holding out for a "long distance relationship?" Over the phone? You're insane and literally waiting on an idea in your own head to occur that will not happen in reality.

She isn't responding asap? She doesn't give an actual shit. You're just the fallback entertainment plan to MAYBE text when she gets bored at work and has nothing else to do. You are wasting your time. Oh my god, man. What are you even asking for help on? There is nothing here,

It's hard to fully understand until you engage with a girl and see their phones and how much fucking notifications they get that they just use when they need a dope rush of attention, but they ALL have those little attention options in their phone. The fattest ugliest bitch you can imagine has the same "text friends" to entertain her as any other woman. Don't mistake them for forgetful children. Women may be dumb and temporal but if she wanted to respond to you, she fucking would. She isn't just "busy" with nothing else to do. You're probably just a future travel ticket for a vacation stay out of her state, if even that. Give it up
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:34:31 AM No.33312869
>>33312542
I'm the anon that asked, "Why do you think you're needy?"

It's cool man, you got heart, just don't let that heart take over who you are if that makes sense?

It's like anything else, once you can put it aside in the silence and make space for other things that are present then you will be in the best state of mind. And when she is around you can be present but you don't have to be anything for her, just be your most self and observe her and react how you want.

If you can do that, you'll be fine, if not, well go the long way around, all good my man.