Sister - Bipolar behavior? - /adv/ (#33313285) [Archived: 640 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:00:07 AM No.33313285
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>come from an abusive household
>was living with GF in a 2BR Apartment
>Move my younger sister (early 20s) to the empty room to get her out of that hellhole
>...a month later just constant arguments with my GF over "When is she moving out?"
>Ends with "It's me or her".
Now it's just me and my sister.

TBQH, it's kinda hard.
When she's good she's great, but she flips so fast it's almost jarring.
I go from her favorite person to just the worst and back 5x a day.
She's yelling and screaming at me one minute, then 30mins later she wants hugs and cuddles while she cries...
Breaks my fucking heart man.

I've tried taking her to therapists but that shit hasn't worked at all. They all just seem to be Yes-(wo)men or pill-pushers that make her worse.

At this point I've sort of resigned myself to the "rock" position, and am hoping the routine of a job and stable home would give her some footing.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:05:37 AM No.33313294
See how she behaves around other men
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:11:43 AM No.33313312
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wtf is wronf with you
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:29:51 AM No.33313359
>>33313294
She seems pretty normal at her job, I've met her coworkers occasionally since I drop her off.
Most her section is women.
Afaik she didn't date in HS but by then I was pretty far from home (I'm 8yrs older) by that time
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:13:56 AM No.33313520
>>33313285 (OP)
Do you suspect she's struggling to reconcile the change in her situation, bringing adaptations made in response to her previous environment with her?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 2:48:24 PM No.33314423
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>>33313520
probably not the cause.
she's always been like that, even as a baby.
It's cute when a kid pouts and cries then is laughing again quickly. It's sad and jarring for an adult over 20...

She's also always been the touchy-type. As in; touching you while talking, arm-grab, hand-on-shoulder, she hugs easily. A few people in my family are like that.
I'm more like my dad in that unless it's close family/partner I don't do physical contact...
Overall, I'd say her behavior hasn't changed much but it's affecting her worse
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:09:56 PM No.33314476
>>33313285 (OP)
>>33314423
why is this dumb bitch so hot
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:16:36 PM No.33314494
>>33314476
Choker, visible bra, messy hair, open upper chest area, and slutty zoomer aesthetic.
The answer is quite simple really, it's the mid 20' meta aesthetics for girls looking to attract
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:41:01 PM No.33314568
>her behaviour hasn't changed
because she's still getting away with it

it's really easy to emulate your fucked-up parents without thinking
when she acts up, compare her to your parents, and send her to another room to reset
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 3:42:13 PM No.33314573
>>33313285 (OP)
Is she hot?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 9:58:45 PM No.33315718
>>33314573
she probably is because OP took her in
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Anonymous
7/5/2025, 3:55:14 PM No.33319388
>>33315718
>>33314573
Why are you even asking?
What does it even matter what your sibling looks like?