I get friendzoned after every date - /adv/ (#33314004) [Archived: 1141 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/4/2025, 11:42:29 AM No.33314004
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I am so fucking fed up with dating women, they all say they want a partner but then I show them I can be a good partner, the date seems to go good or even great and then - I get either ghosted (rarely) or friendzoned.

I went out with ~7 women that I met online this year. All of those times we texted for at least a week before meeting. Out of those 7 women, 2 were kinda bigger, the rest was slim.
I think I had the biggest chances with the bigger ones but I just can't bring myself to finding one attractive ever.
Just yesterday I went out with another girl, slim, feminine but not so pretty in the face. But she seemed "not like other women", but even she friendzoned me today, telling me "I'm too much like her, we can be friends".

What the fridge... They were ALL complaining about their previous relationships where the guy was detached and didn't give a fuck. The last one even told me she is not looking for dopamine boosts but genuine relationship.

I tried with them all, the shy church girls, the more frivolous, the rock girls, the pop girls, into books and arts, or into sports and travels. I see a lot of men complaining about dating in 2025, are they having similar problem?
I'm from Eastern Europe if that changes anything and I'm slightly autistic, but I tell people that.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 12:19:16 PM No.33314092
>partner
They're probably turned off by your lack of testosterone. Consume less onions
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 12:22:09 PM No.33314102
>>33314092
You say that based off of a word I used? Nice gaslighting. Well, if you read my post in it's entirety, you would know that English is not my native language and I don't see what's wrong with the word "partner" and how does it entail I'm low T.
Funny enough because this week I had my T levels tested and I'm in the upper half of the norm so your shitty theory is lacking.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 12:42:55 PM No.33314157
>>33314004 (OP)
You sound entitled and shallow. I'm not surprised women find that off-putting.

As well as keeping those tendencies in check, you probably also need to work on coming across as confident and entertaining. The number one quality that women are attracted to is confidence.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:07:32 PM No.33314655
>>33314004 (OP)
>They were ALL complaining about their previous relationships where the guy was detached and didn't give a fuck.
Bro you're falling for the oldest trick in the book. The thing all those guys have in common is that THE WOMEN DATED THEM! They didn't date nice guys.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 4:09:55 PM No.33314663
Dang dude. You should try being nicer and more desperate.