Should I move out and just dissapear? - /adv/ (#33315113) [Archived: 1122 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/4/2025, 6:30:37 PM No.33315113
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I (18f) just graduated from high school and right now I have two options: I can either stay home w/ economical support and have a college degree or move out and just live my own life out there in the world. The issue is that, my mum is unstable and most of the time, agressive, and I'm not even sure If i'll still have support in the future. On the other way around, a acquantice offered to help, but it's less possible I could get a higher education due to migratory and economical reasons. I feel bad thinking about leaving my mother. On the other hand, I feel like I won't be able to do anything if I'm still stuck here. What should I do? Am I a bad person for just wanting to leave without anyone?
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 6:32:56 PM No.33315119
>>33315113 (OP)
go to college. Your life is basically over if you don't go to college in 2025. Don't let anyone trick you into thinking anything else. Also don't think you can always go later that's also a lie. You have to go now.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 6:33:33 PM No.33315125
start an OF
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 6:36:11 PM No.33315135
>>33315113 (OP)
Bitch if you 18F you living live in easy mode. Unless you FAT and even then you could probably get some paypigs. You could probably become a streamer or an only fans whore and make bank. You could become an escort to pay for school.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 6:42:14 PM No.33315151
>>33315113 (OP)
Go to school. If shit happens, then it happens, but get that started first. You'll make connections and going to school will give you some degree of independence.
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Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:32:26 PM No.33315298
>>33315125
>>33315135
don't listen to these fucking idiots

>>33315151
listen to this guy
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 7:41:26 PM No.33315320
>>33315113 (OP)
Get the college degree. Living your own live as a f is a bit more challenging. Unless you are american, then you could join the army.
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 8:42:50 PM No.33315473
>>33315113 (OP)
Nah fuck college, I’m going to disappear soon
Anonymous
7/4/2025, 9:08:09 PM No.33315543
>>33315113 (OP)
College for sure, do CC for 2 years if you need
Anonymous
7/5/2025, 8:08:11 AM No.33318389
>>33315113 (OP)
Move out and come live with me.
I'm a 23 yo with a good home and career
Zach
7/5/2025, 8:50:20 AM No.33318501
>>33315113 (OP)
This may sound vanilla and generic, but you'll have to start from getting a job as a barista living possibly in a shithole or in a car. A college degree isn't all that bad either, as it'll open doors for you.